I deal with depression and OCD. Anxiety comes with the OCD. Also, I am really waning to find my wife. Not marry immediately, but just find her. It is very much on my mind a lot. Do you think the OCD and wife thing are connected? I'm a college male.
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But I mean, my desire seems stronger than most people.
But I mean, my desire seems stronger than most people.
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It is logical thinking of the flesh to need a wife to experience love, communication, challenging financial circumstances such as the rent or home mortgage, unexpected tragedies such as loss of child, loved one, honesty that involves hidden past memory trauma or anger that could affect future circumstances that end in divorce:.
As for being spiritually Christ-like minded where focus is on how Jesus is super-confident and sinlessly healthy, and where maximum health for eternal life is promised for everyone who accepts and obey his rules of righteousness - then trophy-winning human successes like having a wife and kids, a decent career or business, having a flash house and car are minor compared to what we will achieve when Jesus returns and transforms us with new memory-perfected minds and injury-proof sinless bodies of spirituality, not sexuality where I believe heterosexual or homosexual behavior will be replaced by the full maximum benefits of Christ's pure guilt-free and depression-free joy because sin then would no longer attack virally that causes sexual frustration or criminal behavior .;'*';. Rev 21:2
As for being spiritually Christ-like minded where focus is on how Jesus is super-confident and sinlessly healthy, and where maximum health for eternal life is promised for everyone who accepts and obey his rules of righteousness - then trophy-winning human successes like having a wife and kids, a decent career or business, having a flash house and car are minor compared to what we will achieve when Jesus returns and transforms us with new memory-perfected minds and injury-proof sinless bodies of spirituality, not sexuality where I believe heterosexual or homosexual behavior will be replaced by the full maximum benefits of Christ's pure guilt-free and depression-free joy because sin then would no longer attack virally that causes sexual frustration or criminal behavior .;'*';. Rev 21:2
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If you have been diagnosed with OCD, yes, it is possible that something that gets "in" your mind can, unfortunately, run in circles there and make the situation worse. 
Have you ever had a cognitive therapy? Or have you sought counseling from a pastor or someone else who helps in your church?
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Have you ever had a cognitive therapy? Or have you sought counseling from a pastor or someone else who helps in your church?
Oh, and you can reset your email preferences. Click on your UserCP (control panel) at the top of the screen, and you should see a list of subscribed threads. Click on "view all threads".
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It's not always so bad. My brother has OCD, and someone else close to the family. Doesn't bother either of them, though my brother had to learn to deal with letting someone wash their hands without immediately running in to dry the sink behind them. He's a great guy, and has a new girlfriend.
5-HTP is also very promising for OCD.
BTW, if you are taking any prescription meds, check with your doc. Especially on the St. John's wort.
5-HTP is also very promising for OCD.
BTW, if you are taking any prescription meds, check with your doc. Especially on the St. John's wort.
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I have had things with females that ended. It bothers me to have it and then lose it. Why can't something work out?
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Don't be too anxious you will find a wife, trust God. I am praying for you.
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The more times you flip a coin the more chances you get that it comes out heads or tails. Its a numbers thing. Eventually it works out if you put in the effort to get past what doesn't work.
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