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masturbation

  1. V

    Masturbation

    Okay, so I'm a single mother and I was in a relationship for ten years but that's over now. I never needed to touch before because I was always taken care of in that department but now I'm not. I've heard some people say its a sin and some say it isn't as long as I'm not watching porn or...
  2. PistolPete9

    Relapsing Back To Porn & Masturbation

    Hi all Greetings from Australia :) How are you all fairing? I will cut to the chase, I am a Born-Again Christian who loves Christ however just like a lot of men (and women) I struggle with habitual sins of porn & masturbation. For the past 2 weeks I was able to control my urges but just last...
  3. megan_26

    Relapsing In Sin

    There's a quote from R. Zaccharias that says, "Sin will take you further than you want to go, keep you longer than you want to stay and cost you more than you want to pay." I first heard my pastor say this during a sermon and it struck me particularly hard because it's true. I first got into...
  4. S

    Being tempted in my dreams...

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  5. M

    i feel awful.. christians answer only.

    so I caught my 20 year old brother watching porn. I didn't see him watching it but when I opened his door, it was pretty obvious what he was doing. hes my bestfriend. and we are very close. I am 21 by the way. anyways, I come from a very religious house hold. I'm a Pentecostal Christian. we go...
  6. D

    I broke a covenant with God

    Hi. I am addicted to porn and masturbation. I tried to stop by making a promise/covenant to God that the day that I touch or have premarital sex, may I die. I included premarital sex because I am in a long-distance relationship, we are both christians but the temptation is unbearable when...
  7. S

    On my own

    I can't find it me to get back up and fight for my salvation. I was good. I just let my gaurd go down and the enemy took it as an entrance. God broke the chains of homosexuality and deppresion a few years ago. I had a pornography addiction along with a masturbation addiction. I feel like im...
  8. J

    NOT masturbating is stopping me from getting work done

    Hi. I've been masturbating since I was 13. I've been trying to stop (Really stop) masturbating for about 2 years now. My longest streak of successes has been 65 days. My struggle isn't with porn. I don't care much for it. The problem I've had is not being able to get work done when I stop...
  9. Lybrah

    I'm in bondage and can't escape

    I need prayer. I can't confess this sin to my bible friends because it's too personal. I touch and fantasize about having sex with a man daily. I'm a woman who's never really had sex and is unmarried. I want a husband but I don't think I'm going to get one. I just can't let anyone in...
  10. W

    Fantasizing about other women

    i really need some honest Christian males to respond please. I've been dating this guy for over a year and at the beginning I was really into him but he wasn't as into me. I am overweight and he made me aware that I was better looking when I was thinner. He also made the comment that one of...
  11. Gregory Mallett

    Prayers needed to overcome Pornography!

    Hey All, I just joined this forum to ask for some prayers from my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. I have deeply damaged my connection to God this week and as a result am feeling pretty lonely and desperate. Porn is one of those vices that can recur over a period of time and when it does...
  12. Tylyr

    The Truth about Sex

    I recently put together this video talking about the reasoning behind why certain sexual acts (such as homosexuality, masturbation, use of contraceptives, etc.) are immoral. I also made a video answering some frequently asked questions about the first video, I'll link that below too! Thoughts?