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My first thought is that they would have trouble getting married to anyone if they don't want to be in a relationship before marriage :doh: My next thought is that not wanting to have an 'EX' is ideal and it is even possible, but we do not live in an ideal world My last thought is it could be...

Emma Mr. Knightley: Better be without sense than misapply it as you do. [pause] Mr. Knightley: Try not to kill my dogs (smirk)

Put your friendship with her on probation (i.e. limit your interaction so you can heal/get over her). When you are ready, have moved on, go back to being a friend.

Doesn't sound like you are all that interested in him..are you? The reason I ask is because of the way you described your relationship with him and the fact that making it more is purely his idea. If you are not interested in him, then there is no need to alarm the girl. If you are, then tell...

Yes, ask him to marry you, you know pre-emptive strike :P

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Little bit a both. Whoever accepts has a part to play...they have to be asked first.

DING DING DING DING DING DING DIGN!!!! In general, for advice, hopefully we are consulting people in our lives like friends we can sit down and talk to or pastors we can go out to lunch with etc etc. I think this forum is more for encouragement to know that you are not alone more than anything...

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I just find it funny how Stan started to look like a jerk as soon as his interest level in her dropped. There are many threads on this board like that. Guys become jerks as soon as they are not interested any longer. LOL...right.

No last comma. "and" implies the end of the list.

I've been through that exact situation. When she told me over the phone...my initial reaction was to ask "And you said yes!??!?!?" But in the end I kept my thoughts to myself and all I could muster was a weak "congratulations". Told her that I'd take her out to lunch. Lunch was difficult...

&nbsp means the code didn't work our right. I'll see if i can correct it. I'm glad you all enjoyed those (I forgot that I even created this thread, hehe)

Two indoor soccer games tonite...then go collapse somewhere.

I agree RE: lists. At some point, one has to compromise for somethings when they meet their future mate. People cannot be described by lists.

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...neither with me. I have been guessed to be younger by many, I just smile and enlighten them.

The world "superficial" has a negative connotation to it especially in the context of dating/marriage. But if it is used as to describe physical attraction, then there is nothing wrong with it. A couple should be physically attracted to each other and should not need to give a defense for...

Sounds like you want to let him know that you are not interested AND that this stance is not going to change. Best way is the direct route. Just tell him straight up. It'll save you the headache and him the heartache.

We still need a definition to go much further on this topic. I personally do not believe in soul mates for several reasons. But I think the most important is that it implies more in marriage than should ever be. i.e. soul - mate. The Bible makes clear that marriage is very much a God...