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Highly Sensitive and can no longer enjoy video games and tv

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Doesnt seem like it would be an impossible thing to put together.....we are all but doing that very thing here.
Ya i guess my hunger is for the ability to enjoy some kind of objective based activity to build teamwork while being Christian, and my inability to play video games has made that impossible now
 
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Sorry if that is a lot but i just want to tell someone because this is getting not fun for me.
That which hurts you, shouldn't be done.

Getting away from that which unsettles you, is good. Long ago I too got away from games, it was getting to where it's nothing but gore, shooting and brutal murders.

I lost my love for chess, it's really fun. But my mind is tired easily.

Maybe subscribe to some online newspapers? Or there's free papers online (app called news reader) might help alliviate boredom.
 
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That which hurts you, shouldn't be done.

Getting away from that which unsettles you, is good. Long ago I too got away from games, it was getting to where it's nothing but gore, shooting and brutal murders.

I lost my love for chess, it's really fun. But my mind is tired easily.

Maybe subscribe to some online newspapers? Or there's free papers online (app called news reader) might help alliviate boredom.
I actually have found a lot of fun in hobbies and my most fun thing to do is talk to people online :) like here and Reddit called r/TrueChristian.

I also play the piano and play very simple games online like from 2010 little motocross games nothing fancy and only for 10 minutes at a time. I am starting to do surveys for money online, swagbucks is a waste of time but i just recently tried to sign up for Mturk on amazon and will try that once Sunday is over ( i do not work or buy things on Sundays).
 
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What about things like reading and arts and crafts?
Ya been reading more lately and that definitely helps, also did arts and crafts as well but found that everything I drew or made had an affect some positive some negative so I limit what I draw unless I want something. It's hard to explain but I need to get better at drawing
 
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Because as I read further I saw that you had already addressed doing hobbies.
it's ok i don't mind repeating plus i forgot i answered that
 
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Ya i guess my hunger is for the ability to enjoy some kind of objective based activity to build teamwork while being Christian, and my inability to play video games has made that impossible now
I hear you. Gaming cant be the only such activity, we are just unable to see that which we have never been aware of. Of course, if it is not of God then we are just trading one vice for another.....
 
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it's ok i don't mind repeating plus i forgot i answered that
Lol, welcome to my world! I almost remembered that I forgot that I almost remembered. As I get older I find my thoughts so scattered I cant even follow a thread of thought sometimes as I forget whre I was going mid sentence. Awkward to say the least.
 
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I hear you. Gaming cant be the only such activity, we are just unable to see that which we have never been aware of. Of course, if it is not of God then we are just trading one vice for another.....
true. I guess I just yearn for Heaven where people can fly and build and fellowship and read and explore space and talk to saints and fellowship with Jesus and rest and eat good food without worrying about sin or anything negative as a stupid stumbling block. I am so tired of this world and it's worldliness, but yet I want to make a difference while here and know there is much work to be done
 
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Ya been reading more lately and that definitely helps, also did arts and crafts as well but found that everything I drew or made had an affect some positive some negative so I limit what I draw unless I want something. It's hard to explain but I need to get better at drawing
I was thinking back to a time before home video games and I didn't have a TV at the time, and how I kept myself occupied with reading and making things out of clay and painting and so on. That and a lot of avid walkmg and bicycling. But as you say the weather curtails the the latter.

However when I'm experienced periods of generalized anxiety, nothing really helps much.
 
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true. I guess I just yearn for Heaven where people can fly and build and fellowship and read and explore space and talk to saints and fellowship with Jesus and rest and eat good food without worrying about sin or anything negative as a stupid stumbling block. I am so tired of this world and it's worldliness, but yet I want to make a difference while here and know there is much work to b

true. I guess I just yearn for Heaven where people can fly and build and fellowship and read and explore space and talk to saints and fellowship with Jesus and rest and eat good food without worrying about sin or anything negative as a stupid stumbling block. I am so tired of this world and it's worldliness, but yet I want to make a difference while here and know there is much work to be done
We are told to hate this life so you may well be onto something there. Im with you on all the above, but I love to sing and Ive lately developed a desire to sing for God. So I will add that to the list above and wait my turn as well.
 
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I was thinking back to a time before home video games and I didn't have a TV at the time, and how I kept myself occupied with reading and making things out of clay and painting and so on. That and a lot of avid walkmg and bicycling. But as you say the weather curtails the the latter.

However when I'm experienced periods of generalized anxiety, nothing really helps much.
ya is your weather getting any better soon? i'm in california and the rain will stop by tomorrow
 
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We are told to hate this life so you may well be onto something there. Im with you on all the above, but I love to sing and Ive lately developed a desire to sing for God. So I will add that to the list above and wait my turn as well.
thanks for the good conversation, and i know we are to hate our lives but i believe there is still good to be enjoyed here like Solomon talks about :)
 
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thanks for the good conversation, and i know we are to hate our lives but i believe there is still good to be enjoyed here like Solomon talks about :)
Hate in this regard is simply meant to not regard this life as all there is and forsake Christ to embrace it. Of course there is much to enjoy, just not to the detriment of our Christian pursuits.
 
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