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Struggle feeling like a fake christian

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I just want a straight and honest answer so prior to getting on zoloft i was very angry as well as depressed, I was angry at God and truly didn't care for him. After the depression lifted and anger subsided all Ive wanted to do is pursue God. It makes me feel like a fake christian--am I?

Also I wanted to ask since the anger and depression has subsided can you tell me how to replace those empty areas with Gods word. Its absolutely amazing how i have nothing but love for God now.
 

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You are not a fake Christian. Trust in the Lord ( Romans 10:9-13). Remember His commandments for yourself and your neighbor in a basic sense of good will ( Matthew 22:36-40, Matthew 7:12). Pray along these lines ( Matthew 6:9-13).

Find a good pastor or priest to talk with. They are there to help us.
 
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Those things were just getting in your way. Blocking you. It’s a quick solution, but sometimes we need help. Forgive him, thank, it’s over. You not fake just following as best you can. The past is done when we repent.
 
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Those things were just getting in your way. Blocking you. It’s a quick solution, but sometimes we need help. Forgive him, thank, it’s over. You not fake just following as best you can. The past is done when we repent.
Yeah it was a major block
 
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