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I may have missed it in the church fathers, and am no expert on their writings, but I have not encountered them warning against sex with your spouse due to the draining of your "vital force." Perhaps you can point it out.
Certainly the Scriptures did not warn about this.
The Scriptures do warn against fornication, adultery, etc. But Proverbs does not warn against sex with your spouse:
Proverbs 5:15-23 15 Drink water from your own cistern,flowing water from your own well.16 Should your springs be scattered abroad,streams of water in the streets?17 Let them be for yourself alone,and not for strangers with you.18 Let your fountain be blessed,and rejoice in the wife of your youth,19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe.Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight;be intoxicated always in her love.20 Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden womanand embrace the bosom of an adulteress?21 For a man’s ways are before the eyes of the LORD,and he ponders all his paths.22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,and he is held fast in the cords of his sin.23 He dies for lack of discipline,and because of his great folly he is led astray.Paul acknowledges that some have a vocation of being single to serve the Lord. And he acknowledges abstaining by mutual consent for times of fasting and prayer.
But he also points out that those who do not have the gift of singleness, in light of the sexual immorality in the world, should each have their own spouse, and should render to each other the affection due the other. And they should not deprive one another.
1 Corinthians 7:2-5 2 Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (NKJV)
This is correct, the early Church Fathers did not subscribe to EGW’s beliefs about sex within marriage.
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