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Why religion cannot make its mind up about nudity

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I’m not dressing like a schlub because some men are content to be weak and helpless with the expectation the world should make life easier for them as a result.

Men who look at me and have lust need to adjust themselves. The first step would be to acknowledge how I’m dressing has zero to do with them or a desire for their attention and approval. They are the center of their world but they’re certainly not the center of mine.
You need to cover yourself. No one wants to see it
 
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Being a woman, I can confirm that exactly none of us are interested in dressing in a way that entices him or people like him. As a whole, we are not keen on pursuing the good opinion of people who compare women to prostitutes.
Straw man. I never compared woman to prostitutes. I said some dress like prostitutes and they do. I'm not enticed by your nudity either. Showing off your beauty is vain and not beautiful. Put some clothes on. Have some respect for yourself
 
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Straw man. I never compared woman to prostitutes. I said some dress like prostitutes and they do.

That would be a comparison.

I'm not enticed by your nudity either. Showing off your beauty is vain and not beautiful. Put some clothes on. Have some respect for yourself
…or don’t and still have respect for yourself.
 
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People need to refrain from showing their body. It's vain and not holiness
Your opinion is noted and being treated with every ounce of the seriousness it deserves.
You need to cover yourself. No one wants to see it
I really don’t care who wants to see what. My wardrobe choices are not a democracy.
Straw man. I never compared woman to prostitutes. I said some dress like prostitutes and they do.
Which would be a comparison.
I'm not enticed by your nudity either. Showing off your beauty is vain and not beautiful. Put some clothes on. Have some respect for yourself
If you’re not enticed then what people do and don’t wear shouldn’t bother you in the slightest.

No need to worry about the level of self-respect I have. I’ve got plenty.
 
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Your opinion is noted and being treated with every ounce of the seriousness it deserves.

I really don’t care who wants to see what. My wardrobe choices are not a democracy.

Which would be a comparison.

If you’re not enticed then what people do and don’t wear shouldn’t bother you in the slightest.

No need to worry about the level of self-respect I have. I’ve got plenty.
It bothers me because people struggle with sexual images. Children can see you too. It bothers me because it's unholy, vain and selfish. But I only care about the church. The world can do what it wants.
 
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It bothers me because people struggle with sexual images.
So then they should work on themselves.
Children can see you too.
Oh no.
It bothers me because it's unholy, vain and selfish. But I only care about the church. The world can do what it wants.
So it doesn’t bother you and the world can do what it wants. Perfect. A resolution we can all agree with. You mind your business and everybody else will mind theirs.
 
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So then they should work on themselves.

Oh no.

So it doesn’t bother you and the world can do what it wants. Perfect. A resolution we can all agree with. You mind your business and everybody else will mind theirs.
My business is preaching. It's vain, selfish and unholy to entice people with lust.
 
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There is no honesty here. People act like you did something wrong by saying that prostitutes exist. Bad is good and good is bad
How much does a woman need to cover/ how loose do her garments need to be to avoid such a comparison ?
 
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