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Why religion cannot make its mind up about nudity

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Then there is no problem and other people can where what they want.
There is a problem. Women shouldn't dress to entice men. It's not holiness. Porn warps the minds of children as well. Show some class not skin.
 
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How about minding your own business. I’m you don’t get to apply your levels of scrupulousity to other people.

If you don’t like it go live in the the worlds or in a country with moral police.
I'm minding my business. I preach the truth
 
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How about minding your own business. I’m you don’t get to apply your levels of scrupulousity to other people.

If you don’t like it go live in the the worlds or in a country with moral police.
I don't care what the country does. I care what the church does
 
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So the woman can show off her body for attention but if a man notices then it's his fault? People have no discernment.
How people react to what they see is their responsibility.
 
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How people react to what they see is their responsibility.
Yes, that's true. But what we show is our responsibility as well. If we dress to entice lust then that's what we will get. Simple
 
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Yes, that's true. But what we show is our responsibility as well.

I have no obligation to dress in a way to accommodate others reactions, that’s on them.
 
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I have no obligation to dress in a way to accommodate others reactions, that’s on them.
So you have no obligation to avoid putting stumbling blocks in other people's way? That's what it is. And you have no problem with Christian women enticing men by showing off their body? Is that holiness?
 
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How others react is their responsibility. If they feel uncomfortable with their reaction to something it’s on them to avoid it.

Nope.
We are not supposed to put stumbling blocks in people's way. Showing off your body to entice their lust is a stumbling block.
 
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How others react is their responsibility. If they feel uncomfortable with their reaction to something it’s on them to avoid it.

Nope.
So you have no problem with ungodly men lusting after your wife or daughter?
 
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What is your point? And question?

Maybe if you got a chip on the other shoulder you may come in balance more.

blaming your struggle on others is not a road to happiness.

Women are women for crying out loud, what would we do without them?

But I hope you can find peace of mind to put you out of your misery.

It is absolutly not my intention to be rude, or personal so I back out.
 
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We get to preach the truth however. If you entice lust that's what you get.
The truth: others reactions to visual stimuli is their responsibility and if they are made uncomfortable by those reactions it’s on them to alter their behavior not on others to alter theirs.
 
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Maybe if you got a chip on the other shoulder you may come in balance more.

blaming your struggle on others is not a road to happiness.

Women are women for crying out loud, what would we do without them?

But I hope you can find peace of mind to put you out of your misery.

It is absolutly not my intention to be rude, or personal so I back out.
This is a straw man. I'm not blaming my problems on others. I don't have a problem with lust. I'm not looking at anyone nor am I dressing to gain their attention.
 
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The truth: others reactions to visual stimuli is their responsibility and if they are made uncomfortable by those reactions it’s on them to alter their behavior not on others to alter theirs.
So if I entice a drunk to drink then its all his fault? Why would a Godly women want to entice me with her body anyway?
 
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