ZephBonkerer
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This sounds like the typical evolution of those who wind up those "cautionary" tales of stepping from their church social circles. The usual story is kid is raised Christian, kid is in high school goes with family to church routinely, kid gets accepted to a college, he goes off into the world and college and he's like you, playing poker, (with me its board games with friends, lol), salsa or whatever (just making a point)...you know, normal recreation activities that have the "appearance of evil"
I might have guessed. I was unchurched throughout my childhood, so I may have a blind spot towards the informal pressures on someone who never knew any secular society.
Those people who cite "the appearance of evil" are the Karens of the Christian community with nothing else better to do with their lives than to mind their own business.
I kinda made light of it. "Sheesh, people! The strippers we hired didn't show, and we were all outta weed, so we had to do SOMETHING! We had beer and cards, so we settled for that."
I suppose the Karens don't really appreciate my humor.
Shoot, salsa/bachata might be misconstrued by busy-body Christians as overtly sexual in nature, with the hips moving and the "erotic" dance moves.
I admit some of it took some getting used to for me. But that was me learning the ways of a new culture.
I only do the more sensual moves with someone I know is OK with it. I never assume that they are. I have a style of bachata that is more open and playful, so in many cases that issue doesn't even come up.
Believe you me, I immediately dissociate myself with those "appearance of evil" types...with this Halloween coming up, same situation. People get a little nuts believing that trick or treating in costumes has an "appearance of evil"...and shut their doors to kids.
A rule of thumb regarding the "appearance of evil": if someone of ordinary intelligence has to guess where the appearance of evil is, chances are it's illusory.
Funny, those years your mentioned were the years where I live where singles Bible study groups were kind of prevalent. After church services, people would gather for singles Bible study, and then go out to eat after or do some recreational activity. These singles groups would eventually fizzle out after a couple of years. Losing popularity.
We did that stuff in our assembly too. I have some fond memories of Soul Calibur II on the Playstation2 with the guys. I never figured out what the girl people there did for fun. Talk about girl stuff, I guess.
Our college aged group had a good run, but it ran its course with me. In early 2005 (I was now 27), some of the others in the group got an idea to play Twister in public places for giggles. On the side of a busy road, in the elevator of the Oakridge Mall, places like that. And they filmed all of it. As I was watching the film, that's when I figured I'm getting a bit old to be hanging with college kids.
Oh, I remember in the 1980s how Dungeons and Dragons was demonized.
Same for heavy metal music.
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