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ARGH - hitting earlier than before 
I want CHEESE
I want CHEESE
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quite the podvigIt's hit me much earlier than usualI can't really see why .
I'm sorry to hear of your personal and financial hardships. Lord have mercy.I’m just trying to stay alive. No spiritual father, no close friends nearby, a family and children that leans leftist (in spite of all my efforts) and a very mercurial relationship with my wife, my mother (my chief confidante in life) gone and buried in a Muslim grave, a refugee in yet another foreign land on temporary rights only, trying to support not only immediate family including mother-in-law, but pay rent for my older daughter in Germany who can’t support herself yet (heck, SHE’s a student in another foreign land), just had a major source of income cut off thanks to “sanctions” (which pretend to target the rich and powerful, but actually leave them mostly untouched while screwing over ordinary folks). Facing a doubling of the rent for the summer months and don’t know how I am going to pay it. If I can say “no” to little things here and there, that’s about as much fasting as I can do.
On the flip side, I got to Confession for the second time since my arrival six months ago, when the stars are aligned amd I can get to the church when the English-speaking priest serves on Saturday evenings. The rain has finally stopped and it’s sunny, if cool. It’s been a struggle to fast for years, and now I just do the what very little I can, and try not to feel guilty about it.
continued prayers for you, rus!I’m just trying to stay alive. No spiritual father, no close friends nearby, a family and children that leans leftist (in spite of all my efforts) and a very mercurial relationship with my wife, my mother (my chief confidante in life) gone and buried in a Muslim grave, a refugee in yet another foreign land on temporary rights only, trying to support not only immediate family including mother-in-law, but pay rent for my older daughter in Germany who can’t support herself yet (heck, SHE’s a student in another foreign land), just had a major source of income cut off thanks to “sanctions” (which pretend to target the rich and powerful, but actually leave them mostly untouched while screwing over ordinary folks). Facing a doubling of the rent for the summer months and don’t know how I am going to pay it. If I can say “no” to little things here and there, that’s about as much fasting as I can do.
On the flip side, I got to Confession for the second time since my arrival six months ago, when the stars are aligned amd I can get to the church when the English-speaking priest serves on Saturday evenings. The rain has finally stopped and it’s sunny, if cool. It’s been a struggle to fast for years, and now I just do the what very little I can, and try not to feel guilty about it.
Lord have mercy!I’m just trying to stay alive. No spiritual father, no close friends nearby, a family and children that leans leftist (in spite of all my efforts) and a very mercurial relationship with my wife, my mother (my chief confidante in life) gone and buried in a Muslim grave, a refugee in yet another foreign land on temporary rights only, trying to support not only immediate family including mother-in-law, but pay rent for my older daughter in Germany who can’t support herself yet (heck, SHE’s a student in another foreign land), just had a major source of income cut off thanks to “sanctions” (which pretend to target the rich and powerful, but actually leave them mostly untouched while screwing over ordinary folks). Facing a doubling of the rent for the summer months and don’t know how I am going to pay it. If I can say “no” to little things here and there, that’s about as much fasting as I can do.
On the flip side, I got to Confession for the second time since my arrival six months ago, when the stars are aligned amd I can get to the church when the English-speaking priest serves on Saturday evenings. The rain has finally stopped and it’s sunny, if cool. It’s been a struggle to fast for years, and now I just do the what very little I can, and try not to feel guilty about it.
that’s like me when Burger King starts smelling good.for some reason, during Lent, going by some of the worst and most disgusting dives imaginable, I suddenly think of how nice it would be to have some horribly greasy burger or sausage...
At least BK has the Impossible Whopper! Pretty much the only burger joint where there's something Lenten.that’s like me when Burger King starts smelling good.
indeed, if you don’t mind they at least were made on the same grills as the regular burgers. Fr Eric Tosi was not happy when he overheard that.At least BK has the Impossible Whopper! Pretty much the only burger joint where there's something Lenten.
yeah, my son the vegetarian was off-put by that also. otoh, my first priest told me that if I'm reading the fine print I'm doing it wrong.indeed, if you don’t mind they at least were made on the same grills as the regular burgers. Fr Eric Tosi was not happy when he overheard that.
yeah, Fr Eric just happened to overhear it, he wasn’t being a Pharisee about it.yeah, my son the vegetarian was off-put by that also. otoh, my first priest told me that if I'm reading the fine print I'm doing it wrong.
I didn't mean to imply that he was.yeah, Fr Eric just happened to overhear it, he wasn’t being a Pharisee about it.
you’re good. I was just trying to be clear.I didn't mean to imply that he was.
One of the things I struggle with is keeping the spirit and intent of the fast in balance with the letter of the fast. It's easy to lose sight of the purpose.
I agree for the most part. Most of the time I prefer a simple vegetable anyway. I don't really care for the substitutes much.Meat substitutes don't sit well with me. They are not inexpensive and require a lot of processing to produce. They don't feel to me as though they fit the spirit of the fast.
Fr Schmemann was big on that pointThey don't feel to me as though they fit the spirit of the fast.