- Dec 13, 2015
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Your reasoning/thinking is bizarre. Maybe you need to discuss this with a professional. You are going to ruin your marriage if you don’t stop. This is not God’s fault. It’s her’s. And it’s going to be your fault as well if you don’t stop obsessing on this. Why in the world would you care if she would get romantically involved with you when you are married?
Oh I dont know but this is a common occurance. If adultery wasnt tempting nobody would do it. Question though, How is my being worried about her basically being imprisoned in Alcatraz bizzare? Especially when you care about someone? And have cared about them for almost your entire life! How is my compassion for a woman who's been abandoned by the world and desperately needs Christ a bad thing?
I'm not obsessing over her, I'm WORRIED SICK about her. I mentioned the odds of getting romantically involved with her for the readers benefit not mine. Ive said it before and Ill say it again I want, I choose, and i love my wife. I made a vow to be with her forever and I plan to KEEP that vow. I did admit that I would be tempted by a romance but arent YOU tempted by sin everyday? Dont YOU become victorious or not over sin everyday?
I'm sorry I'm massively offended at you basically calling my ex a monster. She's not. She's just as much of a sinner as you and I are. Just because she happens to sin differently than us does NOT make her a monster nor understate her NEED for Christ!
Also, I'm not ruining my marriage. I just shared my feelings with her and the entirety of what I just posted here. She said and I quote "you have the right to be worried about her, but since shes been incarcerated in a maximum security prison before for the same reason, she can probably handle herself." Shes made me feel a little better but I still wanted to be comforted by other people because I thought they would care and understand my situation. But yes, my wife also feels SORRY for her. As should everyone wearing the title of Christian. Just because a human being happens to sin differently than you do does not make them any less of a person!
I mean you're basically saying its okay for her to be beaten, raped, shanked or even possibly killed and I have no right to be worried about her because shes a monster who will ruin my marriage when this trial has been making me love and respect and remember the commitments I made to my wife even MORE. I avoided talking about this with her because I didnt want to hurt her but the ONLY thing that hurt her was I made a mistake and called her my girlfriend instead of ex but shes over that. I'm sorry... I'm just SO angry at you right now because what you're saying is upsetting and VERY hurtful.
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