I am new believer in Christ (about 6 months old or so), and I am still trying to renew myself daily. Lately, I’ll admit I have been struggling in my faith, due to the conflict of different doctrine and in-fighting within the Christian community, as well as the lack of positive change in my personal life, or in myself.
It’s easy to get into the habit of doubting my salvation when all I hear about is having a changed heart, and good fruits, and I feel so far from these things. I look at other people’s testimonies, how they seemingly had these Saul to Paul conversions without ever having had to go in depth within scripture to learn gospel truths or realize their identity in Christ, or any of these things that seem to require so much self-shedding and mental and emotional capacity for understanding.
I’m trying to realize these things for myself: That I am saved, cleansed, reconciled to God, forgiven, because of what Jesus did on the cross. Why does it feel like it takes so much inner machination? Jeez, just BELIEVE, I scream at myself.
I dunno. I want to quiet my inner woman; I want Jesus to extract the noise, and bring me those fruits of the spirit that scripture talks about. The peace beyond understanding.
Anyone else going through the same “growing pains”?
Hello The Quiet In Christ, first off,
WELCOME TO CF
"Growing pains?" Oh yeah, especially when I was a new believer like you are now (that was nearly 34 years ago though, and I can promise you that things get better, much better as you grow in knowledge, understanding and wisdom .. especially of God's word .. and as He continues to sanctify you by His truth ..
John 17:17; Philippians 1:6, 2:13; 2 Timothy 2:15, 3:16-17).
One of the things all Christians have to come to terms with is the fact that we have a common enemy who hates us because He hates the One who we now belong to. This is one of the big reasons that we need to grow in the knowledge of God's word, so that we'll understand what the truth really is when Satan and his demons are attacking us with their deceptions/half-truths and outright lies.
One of the things our enemy loves to do is to whisper in our ears and try to convince us that we aren't Christians, and/or that we aren't even worthy to think of ourselves as Christians (I'm sure you've experienced this already). For instance, he'll tempt you to sin, but even if he fails to do so/fails to have you fall into sin (because you used the escape from his temptation that the Lord provided you with in the moment ..
1 Corinthians 10:13), Satan won't give up that easily
Rather, he'll try to convince you that, even though you didn't fall for his temptation, a "real Christian" would have never had such horrible thoughts in their mind to begin with. IOW, he'll try to convince you that you aren't a "real Christian", and/or that you are unworthy to even consider that you might be one.
Sound familiar by any chance? If so, just know that they are all lies.
The Bible tells us to resist Satan, and that he will flee from us when we do ..
James 4:7; 1 Peter 5:8-9.
We resist Satan in a number of ways. First off, by knowing and remembering who we are, children of the living God.
We also need to remember who God is, that He knows the end from the beginning, that nothing we do for the rest of our lives, good or bad, will ever be a surprise to Him, and that even though He knew EVERYTHING about us, He chose to save us anyway
(Did you know that as His child, God has loved you from ~everlasting~ .. Jeremiah 31:3, and that He will ALWAYS love you, now and forevermore? That is a pretty comforting thought, isn't it As Charles Spurgeon once said, "everlasting love shall be the pillow for my head this night").
Secondly, we resist Satan by knowing AND believing the truth (the Holy Scripture), and by choosing to believe and trust God, rather than Satan and the lies that he tells us. We need to stop listening to Satan and/or what our "feelings" are telling us in the moment, and we take those thoughts "captive" and give them over to Jesus to deal with ..
2 Corinthians 10:5), consciously choosing to believe/trust God and
take Him at His word instead
I'm going to stop because this is simply getting to be too long of a post, but I'll leave you with this thought to consider. Do you believe that God is pleased/honored/glorified with us when we choose to listen to our "feelings" and/or Satan's deceptions/lies, or when we choose to listen to/trust Him instead, consciously choosing to take Him at His word ~
IN SPITE~ of what our feelings and/or Satan's lies may be telling us in the moment?
Trust God! (
Proverbs 3:5-6)
Praying for you!
God bless you!! (
Numbers 6:24-26)
--David
p.s. - it is hard to do at first, and it will take work, an ongoing, conscious effort on your part to believe/trust God and His word in the face of your feelings/Satan's lies that are telling you otherwise. But it does get easier as time goes by
Refusing to believe such thoughts/feelings and taking them "
captive" is perhaps the principle way that we, "
resist the devil", so that he will
(eventually) flee from us, just like God promises us that he will
(and if you fail to listen to God and end up sinning, no worries, you are still his ..
John 5:24, 6:37-40, 10:27-28, and He's always ready to forgive you just for the asking ..
1 John 1:9, as well bring you back into full fellowship with Him again).
1 Thessalonians 5
23 May the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body
be preserved complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
24 Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass.
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