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Prove it.I can assure you that most churchgoers are not Christians...
Personal anecdotal report is worthless. I would have the exact same expectation of Graham: show me the evidence.I have numbers of sources including the late Dr Billy Graham. He said that if 5% of the people who came out the front were born again, he would be delighted. My own experience validates that to some degree. I went out the front, signed the decision card, did the studies and such. I was NOT born again. About 4 years later, I did get born again and the difference was immediately obvious to me.
And my own experience validates the exact opposite. Since I'm more handsome I win.My own experience validates that to some degree.
"...to some degree"? To what degree? 1% 5% 20% 51% 77%My own experience validates that to some degree.
Neither are judging other or baseless accusations, or teaching falsehood. Log, not speck.Self-identification is not acceptable to God.
This is a bunch of misogynist rubbish. You don’t need to worry about what “model” of woman to pick out because very few will want to be around you, let alone date you.Yes that’s true, it’s just a double standard thing men can go out part do drugs sleep around ect and still find a great quality women but no quality guy I’ve met doesn’t wants to date women who’s done that.
I hate to sound vulgar but but I’m not going to be politically correct
Would you buy a 2015 Toyota Camry with 300,000 miles on it for $20k
Or would you buy a 2015 Toyota Camry with 300 miles on it for $20k
My point Why would I go for a women who has potentially a lot of issues when I can easily find a quality women who doesn’t have those issues, I’m paying the same price emotionally.
Men sleep around because their hormones want them to, women sleep around because their broken, I’ve never ever met a women who’s slept around who didn’t have some kind of issues of some sort.
Here is a tweet explaining why I’m trying to say in a much better concept, excuse the language though.
So all men are hypocrites, misogynistic hypocrites.Yes that’s true, it’s just a double standard thing men can go out part do drugs sleep around ect and still find a great quality women but no quality guy I’ve met doesn’t wants to date women who’s done that.
False dichotomy.I hate to sound vulgar but but I’m not going to be politically correct
Failed analogy. Are you going to pay a mechanic with no experience $1k to work on your car or a seasoned and well experienced mechanic $1k to work on your car? Are you gonna pay a brand new counselor $150.00 dollars an hour to help you fix your broken marriage or a seasoned, practiced, and married counselor $200.00 an hour to help you work on your marriage?Would you buy a 2015 Toyota Camry with 300,000 miles on it for $20k Or would you buy a 2015 Toyota Camry with 300 miles on it for $20k
lol. Quality men and women have "issues." We live as sinners in a sinful world and it is delusional to think otherwise. It is not one's past that matters; it is one's disposition in Christ and the qualities of healthy people living healthy lives able to form healthy relationship is possible even in the lives of the formerly promiscuous. Yes, former promiscuity does pose certain problems for marriage but no sin is unforgivable, no past irredeemable, and no wound unhealable. In fact, those who have overcome their sin in Christ and gone on to live victorious lives know something many in the body of Christ do not know and are thereby unique benefits to the body of Christ in God's hands.My point Why would I go for a women who has potentially a lot of issues when I can easily find a quality women who doesn’t have those issues, I’m paying the same price emotionally.
Ugh! A whole thread could be devoted to how wrong is that nonsense. The short version: that statement is idiotic.Men sleep around because their hormones want them to, women sleep around because their broken, I’ve never ever met a women who’s slept around who didn’t have some kind of issues of some sort.
Tweet theology.Here is a tweet explaining why I’m trying to say in a much better concept, excuse the language though.
I'm confused by your use of the terminology "born again" why is this only used to identify a group who became christian as an adult? Christ tells us "unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God." So is this not an identity we all should desire?so I’ve had a few elders say something along the lines off
born again Christian women should be avoided when in comes to relationships because generally they were into the party lifestyle drinking doing drugs sleeping around ect before they came to Christ and now that they’ve had there fun and have been played by the players and badboys and gotten sick of that lifestyle they want to come to church and find a good quality man, and it rings quite true.
Now I’m not judging these women every one has mistakes and that’s apart of life, but personally I wouldn’t date one just because a women who’s lived in the church throughout her life is far more likely to be of much better quality and have not engaged in that lifestyle or maybe not to the degree.
What do you guys think of my opinions?
Not quite sure how to take this.so I’ve had a few elders say something along the lines off
born again Christian women should be avoided when in comes to relationships because generally they were into the party lifestyle drinking doing drugs sleeping around ect before they came to Christ and now that they’ve had there fun and have been played by the players and badboys and gotten sick of that lifestyle they want to come to church and find a good quality man, and it rings quite true.
Now I’m not judging these women every one has mistakes and that’s apart of life, but personally I wouldn’t date one just because a women who’s lived in the church throughout her life is far more likely to be of much better quality and have not engaged in that lifestyle or maybe not to the degree.
What do you guys think of my opinions?
Forum rules don't allow me to give the blunt response that I want to provide.so I’ve had a few elders say something along the lines off
born again Christian women should be avoided when in comes to relationships because generally they were into the party lifestyle drinking doing drugs sleeping around ect before they came to Christ and now that they’ve had there fun and have been played by the players and badboys and gotten sick of that lifestyle they want to come to church and find a good quality man, and it rings quite true.
Now I’m not judging these women every one has mistakes and that’s apart of life, but personally I wouldn’t date one just because a women who’s lived in the church throughout her life is far more likely to be of much better quality and have not engaged in that lifestyle or maybe not to the degree.
What do you guys think of my opinions?
Ah, I see. But the same could be said about men, most men lie about sexual partners too. They tend to make their numbers higher.You have the wrong idea of what being a cuck is. I never said a Wanted a virgin women, I don’t care about sexual past in a women the problem is most women 99% lie about their sexual history and even if they were telling the truth most guys think their lying because most women do. If I’m being honest about mine I want honesty back.
P.s An incel (involuntarily celibates) is a guy who hates women because he can’t get laid.
Well I hate to break it to you but fornication is still sexual immorality even if someone makes a lifestyle of going to a bar or party with the intention to "get laid" they're really no different than a prostitute. The only difference is that in secular society one is socially acceptable while the other isn't. Being cuckolded is not a term that originated in inappropriate contentography although you are right that it's heavily featured. To be cuckolded means you fantasize and get a thrill seeing your significant other have flirtatious and sexual interactions with another person and then they return to you in the end. I do agree that it is disgusting and certainly not loving.
Finally, an incel is someone who is involuntarily celibate meaning they don't care about valuing a woman for who she is or loving her. To them she's just a body that needs to be used for sexual gratification and then done away with. I think it is very reasonable that OP wants to have a girlfriend that is a Proverbs 31 lady, and someone who will truly love him. Honesty and communication are extremely important in relationships. If OP has a list of reasonable and moral qualities that he looks for in a woman then I think that's a great thing. Especially considering the long list of expectations that women tend to have when it comes to men.
so I’ve had a few elders say something along the lines off
born again Christian women should be avoided when in comes to relationships because generally they were into the party lifestyle drinking doing drugs sleeping around ect before they came to Christ and now that they’ve had there fun and have been played by the players and badboys and gotten sick of that lifestyle they want to come to church and find a good quality man, and it rings quite true.
Now I’m not judging these women every one has mistakes and that’s apart of life, but personally I wouldn’t date one just because a women who’s lived in the church throughout her life is far more likely to be of much better quality and have not engaged in that lifestyle or maybe not to the degree.
What do you guys think of my opinions?
But I’d rather not wife up a harlot, with you’re attitude I’d be surprised if you haven’t been cucked already.
Okay. I responded before I read this.
First of all, calling any women a harlot is problematic, whether she is a Christian or not.
Second, the term cucked is normally used in inappropriate contentography so I ask you where have you learned this term? Is it from watching inappropriate contentography? Because if so, you’re not as sexually pure and without sin as you may think.
Thirdly, the idea that a wife has sexual past without you involved then you believing that you’ve been “cucked” by the men in her past is incel speak. If I was on any other forum, I would think that this comment would be coming from an incel.
so I’ve had a few elders say something along the lines off
born again Christian women should be avoided when in comes to relationships because generally they were into the party lifestyle drinking doing drugs sleeping around ect before they came to Christ and now that they’ve had there fun and have been played by the players and badboys and gotten sick of that lifestyle they want to come to church and find a good quality man, and it rings quite true.
Now I’m not judging these women every one has mistakes and that’s apart of life, but personally I wouldn’t date one just because a women who’s lived in the church throughout her life is far more likely to be of much better quality and have not engaged in that lifestyle or maybe not to the degree.
What do you guys think of my opinions?