A person is married to someone with Alzheimer's and they don't recognize them, know they're married and haven't had any kind of physical relationship in years.
The healthy spouse often dies before the sick one due to loneliness, stress, and grief that can last for years. This happens an astounding 40% of the time.
If he/she, has a relationship outside the marriage and that develops into a caring partnership that benefits the ill spouse... How can that be wrong?
Don't bother quoting marriage vows which were written in the 1400s. "Sickness and in health"?? That's when people got sick and died a day, week or even a month later.
Dementia patients were just thrown out in the streets and died shortly after.
Or worse, churches thought they were demon-possessed and they were tortured until cleansed. (that's where "dementia" comes from).
Does anyone have any solid comments pro or con?
"And they two shall become one."
What does that mean?
Two half souls come into the world,
find eachother and become one.
Is much simpler, would reckon.
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