Hey guys, I'm coming back to you all again because something's been on my mind lately and I don't know what to do. For those of you who've read my previous thread, this is related to that.
Please keep in mind everyone in this story is in their 20s.
I've recently reconnected with some people whom I haven't seen in years and I absolutely loved every minute of the reunion. I found out that they had recently converted to Christianity a few months ago and are highly devoted to their faith, and that was really inspiring to me because it made me want to get straight with God as well. It was a blessing to see them again.
Now, this is where the dilemma kicks in. Someone I know recently asked me to introduce him to them because he's interested in seeing them and getting close to them, and my only problem with this request is that this individual is highly unreliable and sometimes untrustworthy. He has said and done many questionable things, some of which have ruined friendships, relationships (attempted to convince someone to break up with her partner so she could date him instead), and told a lie that could've sent a married couple into a war had they heard it.
This individual has been confronted several times before, had cried and apologised each time and claims he doesn't understand why he behaves in such a way, only then to repeat his offence all over again weeks or months later...
I hold those people whom I reunited with in high regard and I honestly do not want anyone to ruin my relationship with them. By introducing them, I fear he will do or say inappropriate things that would cause drama between us, as he has done before with others... But at the same time, I can't help but think maybe they could help him change? Maybe by ignoring his request, I am also ignoring his only chance of redeeming himself from all his horrible traits?
I honestly don't know what to do.
What would YOU do?
Thanks!
Please keep in mind everyone in this story is in their 20s.
I've recently reconnected with some people whom I haven't seen in years and I absolutely loved every minute of the reunion. I found out that they had recently converted to Christianity a few months ago and are highly devoted to their faith, and that was really inspiring to me because it made me want to get straight with God as well. It was a blessing to see them again.
Now, this is where the dilemma kicks in. Someone I know recently asked me to introduce him to them because he's interested in seeing them and getting close to them, and my only problem with this request is that this individual is highly unreliable and sometimes untrustworthy. He has said and done many questionable things, some of which have ruined friendships, relationships (attempted to convince someone to break up with her partner so she could date him instead), and told a lie that could've sent a married couple into a war had they heard it.
This individual has been confronted several times before, had cried and apologised each time and claims he doesn't understand why he behaves in such a way, only then to repeat his offence all over again weeks or months later...
I hold those people whom I reunited with in high regard and I honestly do not want anyone to ruin my relationship with them. By introducing them, I fear he will do or say inappropriate things that would cause drama between us, as he has done before with others... But at the same time, I can't help but think maybe they could help him change? Maybe by ignoring his request, I am also ignoring his only chance of redeeming himself from all his horrible traits?
I honestly don't know what to do.
What would YOU do?
Thanks!