Prologue:
Hey, Megan. I was helping a friend through Romans when I was struck by a peculiar concept. The fact is most people teach religion as an idea, rather than God as a person. The problem with this is that there really is no distinction between one religion and another as long as God remains an idea. God, in being a real person, is perfectly able to do things that will lead those who know Him, making a distinction between any false religion based on idea and culture and the truth which is based only on His Spirit. That's why the Bible calls those who do not acknowledge His Son as liars, because they are lying. Without His grace, no one is able to come to Him, so the depth of their deception is directly related to their inability to acknowledge God; they can do nothing but lie to themselves. That's why they are so, "certain," yet so wrong. It's not a lack of conviction or an ignorance of the truth, but lack of God's grace for them to acknowledge what is wrong that keeps them in their ideas and culture. That's why we are supposed to pray for our enemies, because, like them, we were doomed until the grace of God came into our lives and enabled us to live differently. That being said, when one claims God as a person, they must therefor open themselves up to His ability to direct, correct, and prove them wrong. That's why most people follow a religion or scattered denominations. It's not because they want to know who God is, but because as long as they are being taught by someone other than God, they can use the excuses of following that teaching or culture or what they have been told by an authority to ignore the conviction of the Holy Spirit. You will find many religious people following what their parents have taught them, but it is those who follow the Spirit of God who are sons of God, and God is not divided.
Now, in Romans, it does clear this up somewhat by acknowledging that no one has an excuse. It also says elsewhere that the Spirit has convicted the world and that even nature has taught man of the true Jesus Christ. And, seeing that Jesus appeared to Thomas when he doubted, or Job when he questioned, and that God shows no favoritism, it can be safely said that if any man has any real doubt of God, that God Himself will clarify things. "If anyone lacks wisdom let him ask of God." Not his pastor. Not his church. There is no room, then, for resisting the Spirit apart from sin in the heart, and God will not overlook a willful ignorance and turning from His Spirit simply because of temptation or hardship or family or culture or friends. I therefor would encourage you to steel yourself under the umbrella of proof and direction that God has/will provide to this trouble and to remember what Jesus and the prophets have endured for you. It is a long road, but the trip is worthy of it. It is also a narrow road, so you won't win unless you compete according to the rules.
Answer:
In Romans we see Paul discussing the existence of law and the reason for sin. This can be very accurately related to good and evil as the Bible is the word of God, capable for instruction, "so that the man of God may be made complete, fully equipped for good works." He starts, "Is the law sin?" In other words, does the existence of good and it's stimulation for the capacity of evil, then become evil itself? He says, "Without the law, sin was dead." So, if God had not initially made a command for Adam to follow, death would not have been able to enter the world. Sin would have been there all the same, but the distinction, and the consequences for it, would have remained dormant: death would never have had to be. "To be sure, sin was in the world before the law was given, but sin is not charged against anyone's account where there is no law." So, the capacity to miss God's target isn't important until a target is set. There's no need to regard it as anything until its function comes against God. Right? "You were blameless until the day wickedness was found in you." Now he says, "the law is holy, and the commandment holy, and just, and good," meaning that it was not sinful for God to make a command, nor was it a wrong command, but one that had the capacity to bring life because it was given by God; "the commandment, which was ordained to life, I found to be unto death. For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it slew me." So we have what is right making a distinction, bringing about the function of sin, and releasing death to what is evil; "But sin, that it might appear sin, working death in me by that which is good; that sin by the commandment might become exceeding sinful."
So, by making a distinction between right and wrong, righteousness rightly condemned evil, revealing it for what it was and brought it to death. Consequently, however, we were caught by death as well, because we were the ones who sinned; "For if there had been nothing wrong with that first covenant, no place would have been sought for another. But God found fault with the people and said: "The days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will make a new covenant with the people of Israel and with the people of Judah. It will not be like the covenant I made with their ancestors when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they did not remain faithful to my covenant, and I turned away from them, declares the Lord. This is the covenant I will establish with the people of Israel after that time, declares the Lord. I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people."
As Paul relates, "For what the law was powerless to do because it was weakened by the flesh, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the flesh but according to the Spirit."
The reasons for this are given: "he made known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure, which he purposed in Christ, to be put into effect when the times reach their fulfillment--to bring unity to all things in heaven and on earth under Christ." "For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross." And, as it says elsewhere, "When he has done this, then the Son himself will be made subject to him who put everything under him, so that God may be all in all."
So, what the scriptures are saying is that God, in creating the world, had purposed to reconcile all things to Himself through Jesus Christ, to condemn the capacity of evil by the righteous judgment of the law, bringing to light the necessity of His mercy, and to put everything under His subjection through His gift of grace, for even the world we now live in exists by grace, "But Noah found favor in the eyes of the LORD."
It is not an unjust thing for Good to condemn Evil, nor is it wrong for right to make a distinction from itself and that which is wrong, rather, "What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath--prepared for destruction? What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory--"
It is therefore God's right to allow whatever He wishes, to have mercy on whom He wants to have mercy, for even the Son learned obedience through what he suffered. Pain is therefore a necessity in the current order to hold all things accountable to the distinction of sin; "For he who has suffered in his body is done with sin." But God will one day take away all pain, "For the old order of things has passed."
All that being said, knowing the reasons of God will never be enough to follow God, because man's knowledge is not the way to God. What we get by asking questions, or seeking our own understanding, is not obedience, but comfort, and comfort, while it has its place, and, we are to pray unselfishly for things, like knowledge, will never be what leads us to God. You cannot through cleverness of reason attain to the character of God. Rather, "so that your faith may be based on God's power." Salvation therefor rests on God's power in your life; or, as Jesus stated elsewhere, "No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them."
But sin will always ask for more time. It is never satisfied with the answer and that's one of the reasons why it is foolish to ask such questions as, "Why were the former days better than these?" The real war is in the heart with sin. For even if you see God, you will still have to decide whether or not you like Him, and seeing as we doubt someone we know exists, even His reasons cannot compel obedience. It is only through grace that one is saved from themselves. It is only through the Spirit that one achieves life, for even Jesus was born through the Spirit and God silenced the testimony of demons, even though it was about His son because it came not through the Spirit of God, but demons. Questions, while good for understanding, are not salvation nor security. The only real security rests in the finger of God in your life and that's the primary reason Adam was unable to remain perfect. It has only always been the will of God that sustains life; it will only always be through Jesus that God is with us.
"Let us make man in our image." It's not the physical Adam or his offspring that God was talking about, but a story that would perfectly embody His likeness and His glory; we need Him. Granted, darkness really never had to be a certain way, but this is the way that He chose according to His character to bring things to light: "God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace." For if a goodness comes to us through merit, it is limited to our capacities, but if it comes to us by grace, it has no bounds, and this freely bought for us by the blood of Jesus. "You were sold for nothing and without money you will be redeemed." "For God has bound all men over to disobedience that He may have mercy on them all." Jesus asked God three times to change His mind, and God reminded Jesus of His choice three times by using man's inability to stay awake in his time of need. In short, Jesus has already asked your questions and made your pleas for you and for the countless that came before you and those who will come after you, but God did not change His mind. It is therefor better now to put yourself into subjection of His will for your life, come what may, for "anyone who trust in Him will never be put to shame."
"For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, despising its shame." It is godliness to accept the lot that God has given you because He is faithful. "You will not let your holy one see decay." And if you do ever feel alone in the sea of religious people, remember, "I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever-- the Spirit of truth." "If anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ." So, do not be discouraged by life or the sins of others or get distracted. Keep your eyes on Jesus, to obey God, for he has overcome the world; "you will reap what you sow."