Does God love everyone or just his sheep?

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So in your view, "God can love the believer who left Him and went to hell. Based on that love, God then punishes him and torments him in hell forever and ever. That may fit your definition of God's love but it does not fit with mine.

I view "going to hell" as a choice, and "hell" as being eternally separated from God. God is not going to force us to be in a relationship with him if we choose to reject him. He still loves us, and is likely very hurt and saddened by our choice to not be with him, but because he gave us the free will to choose, he allows us to make that choice. Separation is a consequence of our choice not to return his love for us.

Remember, God knows our hearts. The people who would choose to separate themselves from him would *never* choose to love him. It's not going to be a matter of people being sentenced to hell and then realizing they made a mistake. They *still* wouldn't change their minds and return to God, even in the midst of their suffering.
 
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We agree that God loves sinners as God demonstrated his own love for us in that while we were yet sinners, Jesus died for us. We agree that upon regeneration, believers are commanded to obey God.

I appreciate you setting out what we agree on; thank you.

Where we disagree is if a believer chooses not to obey God, will God still love him? I say no because if a believer chooses to not live a sanctified life (not saying perfect since we all still sin) and instead continues in sin (habitual/chronic sin), God cannot love him because his unrepentant sin now separates him from God.

The Israelites were chronic, habitual sinners in the OT and God forgave, and showed them his love - again and again.
We were chronic, godless sinners when God showed his love by sending Jesus to die for us, Romans 5:6-8. He loved us when we hated him and sinned against him; why would he stop loving us if we sin after we come to know him, and limit himself by only being able to love those who obey him?
Paul says there is nothing in the whole of creation that can separate us from the love of God.

That is why Paul warned the Rom brethren "For if you lived according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live" (Rom 8:13). Spiritual death is the consequence of unrepentant sin which separates the believer from God's love.

ALL sin separates us from God, until we repent. That repentance may happen quickly, so the separation will be only a short one. If a Christian chooses to turn from God, deliberately sins and refuses to repent, they will not be aware of, or be able to receive, God's love ; they probably won't even want to. That doesn't mean that God stops loving, though. In the parable of the prodigal son, the father stood and watched for his Son, every day. And when he saw him returning, he threw his arms around him and kissed him, before the son had even said his words of confession. Then he threw him a huge party.
He didn't say, "ok, now I can start to love you again"; he never stopped.

We can't feel the Sun when it's cloudy; doesn't mean that the Sun isn't there.
We can't feel God's love when we sin, because we are temporarily separated from him; doesn't mean his love has stopped or is no longer there.
 
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I want to start with this, because we agree:


Thanks for your explanation. Yes the son was alive when he abided in his father's house. Yes he became dead (spiritually, not physically) because of his trespasses. Yes he was made alive again upon returning to his father and seeking forgiveness. Allow me to further elaborate. When an unsaved person trusts in Jesus and is genuinely saved, he is said to be made alive in Christ (first time). The only way for that person to be made ALIVE AGAIN is for that person to pursue a lifestyle of sin (like the prodigal), experience spiritual death/separation from the father (like the prodigal), and then repent and return to the Father (like the prodigal); thus being make alive AGAIN. A believer who engages in willful habitual sin is spiritually dead. At that point he is no longer in a loving relationship with the Father because he is spiritually dead and separated from God. Only upon repentance is the believer made alive again (second time) and restored to a loving relationship with the Father.

I can agree with everything you said here, the difference between us seems to be with what a non-loving relationship means.

I see a non-loving relationship between a former believer (now rejecting God’s Love) and God being the same as the non-loving relationship between a continuing nonbeliever and God.

I thought we agreed: God loves the nonbeliever, but that does not make for a loving relationship, because the nonbeliever is not Loving God back, at least not yet?

Again your definition of God's love differs from mine. Spiritual death mean separation from God whether one is a believer or unbeliever. That mean spending eternity in the lake of fire reserved for sinners, the enemies of God, and all who disobey and oppose God. Hell is described as a place where they are tormented with burning sulfur, drink the wine of God's fury, the smoke of their torment rises ever and ever and they have no rest (Rev 14:10-11). This may fit your definition of God's love but it certainly does not fit mine. If that is your idea of God still "loving you", I can't even imagine what would happen if God stops loving you.

Loving those that totally do not deserve your Love describes unconditional Love.

What hell is really like is debatable, but it is bad, but it is not bad for the sack of those that go there, since it will do them no good, but for the sack of those nonbelievers, who are trying to decide to accept or reject God’s help (charity/forgiveness/Love/mercy/grace). Hell is an incentive for some to take the choice seriously and give it some urgency.

God has made huge loving sacrifices in order to help those who are willing to accept God’s help (like Christ going to the cross, satan roaming the earth, tragedies of all kinds and it also includes allowing hell to exist for those who have repeatedly refused God’s help to the point of never accepting God’s Love again or for the first time).
 
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I view "going to hell" as a choice, and "hell" as being eternally separated from God. God is not going to force us to be in a relationship with him if we choose to reject him. He still loves us, and is likely very hurt and saddened by our choice to not be with him, but because he gave us the free will to choose, he allows us to make that choice. Separation is a consequence of our choice not to return his love for us.

Remember, God knows our hearts. The people who would choose to separate themselves from him would *never* choose to love him. It's not going to be a matter of people being sentenced to hell and then realizing they made a mistake. They *still* wouldn't change their minds and return to God, even in the midst of their suffering.
It is indeed an individual choice however one's choice is not the subject at hand. Since by their choice they separate themselves from God, God no longer longer loves them but instead they are tormented eternally. Can a father still claim to love one of his children if he torments his child without end?
 
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The Israelites were chronic, habitual sinners in the OT and God forgave, and showed them his love - again and again.
We were chronic, godless sinners when God showed his love by sending Jesus to die for us, Romans 5:6-8. He loved us when we hated him and sinned against him; why would he stop loving us if we sin after we come to know him, and limit himself by only being able to love those who obey him?
Paul says there is nothing in the whole of creation that can separate us from the love of God.
Indeed the Israelites were stubborn. God forgave them on the condition of repentance. God sent them unto captivity because of their unrepentance. Sin separates us from God's love. Paul did not say there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God. That passage is often misquoted. Look carefully at the list he mentions in Rom 8:35-39. No where in that list is sin mentioned - because sin does separate us from the love of God.

ALL sin separates us from God, until we repent. That repentance may happen quickly, so the separation will be only a short one. If a Christian chooses to turn from God, deliberately sins and refuses to repent, they will not be aware of, or be able to receive, God's love ; they probably won't even want to. That doesn't mean that God stops loving, though. In the parable of the prodigal son, the father stood and watched for his Son, every day. And when he saw him returning, he threw his arms around him and kissed him, before the son had even said his words of confession. Then he threw him a huge party.
He didn't say, "ok, now I can start to love you again"; he never stopped.

We can't feel the Sun when it's cloudy; doesn't mean that the Sun isn't there.
We can't feel God's love when we sin, because we are temporarily separated from him; doesn't mean his love has stopped or is no longer there.
The problem with your explanation is that it does not address the text of Rom 8:13. Paul warns the Roman brethren that if they live according to the flesh, they will die. That is a plain statement. Die can only mean spiritual death because everyone physically dies no matter how they conduct their lives. Therefore if a Christian lives according to the flesh (habitual sin) he dies spiritually. Spiritual death by its very definition means eternal separation from God and his love. In the example of the prodigal, Jesus stated that he died and was made alive AGAIN. The only way to be made alive AGAIN is for a person to become saved and made alive in Christ (first time). That Christian then falls into sin and "lives according to the flesh" (Rom 8:13) like the prodigal and becomes spiritually dead (Lk 15:24,32). But upon repentance and returning to his father he is forgiven and made alive AGAIN (second time). The point is the prodigal was spiritually dead when he pursued a lifestyle of sin. At that point he was separated from the father's love because he was spiritually dead. Same thing with Christians who are in habitual sin. They are no longer alive in Christ as they are spiritually dead as they remain unrepentant. Unless they repent, they cannot claim that God still loves them. Nothing can separate them from the love of God - except sin.
 
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I can agree with everything you said here, the difference between us seems to be with what a non-loving relationship means.

I see a non-loving relationship between a former believer (now rejecting God’s Love) and God being the same as the non-loving relationship between a continuing nonbeliever and God.

I thought we agreed: God loves the nonbeliever, but that does not make for a loving relationship, because the nonbeliever is not Loving God back, at least not yet?
I can't remember if I wrote this to your or someone else. Anyway as I see it. God has unconditional love for the unbeliever as demonstrated by sending Jesus to atone for humankind's sin. Once a person becomes a believer however the nature of that love relationship changes because now that believer has a responsibility to love God back by obeying him. God's love is now conditioned by whether or not the believer obeys. That is the nature of a covenant relationship. God is faithful to always do his part but it is questionable if we will always be faithful in fulfilling our part. We remain connected to the vine only as long as we abide in the vine. If we choose to disconnect ourselves through unbelief and/or disobedience, we are cut off from the vine and God's love.

Loving those that totally do not deserve your Love describes unconditional Love.

What hell is really like is debatable, but it is bad, but it is not bad for the sack of those that go there, since it will do them no good, but for the sack of those nonbelievers, who are trying to decide to accept or reject God’s help (charity/forgiveness/Love/mercy/grace). Hell is an incentive for some to take the choice seriously and give it some urgency.

God has made huge loving sacrifices in order to help those who are willing to accept God’s help (like Christ going to the cross, satan roaming the earth, tragedies of all kinds and it also includes allowing hell to exist for those who have repeatedly refused God’s help to the point of never accepting God’s Love again or for the first time).
Hell is eternal death which by its very definition is separation from God and his love. So for the person who ends up there, it cannot be said that they have God's love.
 
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It is indeed an individual choice however one's choice is not the subject at hand. Since by their choice they separate themselves from God, God no longer longer loves them but instead they are tormented eternally. Can a father still claim to love one of his children if he torments his child without end?

Suppose you’re a god and have 12 children which you Love totally unconditionally with the objective of the 12 being to just accepted you’re unconditional Love as pure charity and thus be gifted with this same Love, they will Love others and you with unconditional Love (really be like you). The problem is they all start out naturally selfish and just want to be loved for how they want others to perceive them to be. The only way for them to live happily with you is to want this unconditional Love. As an incentive to have this Love, you warn all your children: “If you’re not going to be happy living with me, you can leave, but eventually you will go to hell.” There are children who get lost and do not even know they are lost (like the lost coin) and you seek them out and bring them home. Other children wander too far away and know they are lost but do not know the way home (like a lost lamb) so you goes after them. But some children intentionally willfully leave and do not want to stay with you (like the prodigal son). You do not go after them, partly to show those still at home they need to have the desire to be in your house and to realize your true to your warnings. You get to express your Love in the greatest of way for all your children by showing your Love for a rebellious disobedient child. In this way you do get some “good” out of the rebellious disobedient child who will never repent, by showing your unconditional Love and by this child being an example of what can happen to them.

If you go get the child, he will still be miserable at home and teach the other children: they do not have to obtain unconditional Love, since living in the house is your choice and not theirs.

There are similarities to God in this parable.
 
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I can't remember if I wrote this to your or someone else. Anyway as I see it. God has unconditional love for the unbeliever as demonstrated by sending Jesus to atone for humankind's sin. Once a person becomes a believer however the nature of that love relationship changes because now that believer has a responsibility to love God back by obeying him. God's love is now conditioned by whether or not the believer obeys. That is the nature of a covenant relationship. God is faithful to always do his part but it is questionable if we will always be faithful in fulfilling our part. We remain connected to the vine only as long as we abide in the vine. If we choose to disconnect ourselves through unbelief and/or disobedience, we are cut off from the vine and God's love.

First off: What type of “Loving relationship” can a rebellious disobedient nonbeliever have with God? God can Love the nonbeliever, but the nonbeliever is not accepting God’s love as charity, so there is no two way “relationship”?

Where in scripture do you find God having any “relationship” with a rebellious disobedient nonbeliever?

A relationship between God and man is established when man accepts God’s charity.

Man can break the relationship with God, but do not blame God for breaking the relationship?

God’s Love is always in the vine and those even “cut off” from God’s Love by their behavior can be graved back in by accepting God’s forgiveness.

Hell is eternal death which by its very definition is separation from God and his love. So for the person who ends up there, it cannot be said that they have God's love.

I never said “the rebellious disobedient have God’s Love”, because they do not, but that is because they are not accepting God’s Love and not because God does not Love them.
 
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It is indeed an individual choice however one's choice is not the subject at hand. Since by their choice they separate themselves from God, God no longer longer loves them but instead they are tormented eternally. Can a father still claim to love one of his children if he torments his child without end?

God is not the one causing the torment. The torment is caused by our own choice to separate ourselves from God. God loves us all, forever and ever, and would desire *all* to make the choice to be with him, but some people simply never will and would suffer even greater torment if God were to force them to be with him against their wishes. We tend to like to blame God for our miseries, but he is not at fault.
 
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Indeed the Israelites were stubborn. God forgave them on the condition of repentance. God sent them unto captivity because of their unrepentance. Sin separates us from God's love. Paul did not say there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God. That passage is often misquoted. Look carefully at the list he mentions in Rom 8:35-39. No where in that list is sin mentioned - because sin does separate us from the love of God.

How can sin separate us from God's love, when he loves sinners, and loved us while we were sinners - before we even knew him?

The problem with your explanation is that it does not address the text of Rom 8:13. Paul warns the Roman brethren that if they live according to the flesh, they will die. That is a plain statement. Die can only mean spiritual death because everyone physically dies no matter how they conduct their lives. Therefore if a Christian lives according to the flesh (habitual sin) he dies spiritually. Spiritual death by its very definition means eternal separation from God and his love.

Yes - and that only happens if a person continually and deliberately sins, refuses all opportunities to repent and dies, still adamant that he will not accept God.

When we sin, we remain out of fellowship with God for as long as it takes us to repent. That might be minutes, or days.
There is no evidence that God stops loving us during that time. I don't believe he can, God IS love. To stop loving would mean he stopped being - that is impossible. WE don't feel that love, or close relationship for a while when we sin - we may be consumed by guilt, or feel afraid in case we've "blown it" and he's stopped loving us. Something, incidentally, I believe the devil is keen to promote - anything to prevent us from repenting and returning to the cross. Sin causes a barrier, so maybe God's love can't "get through"; that doesn't mean it isn't there.

They are no longer alive in Christ as they are spiritually dead as they remain unrepentant.

Yes. But that doesn't mean that God doesn't love them and will only do so once they turn back to him. In the parable, the father was standing and looking out for his son. He may have been standing there for a while, waiting to welcome him home, even though his son was far away and could see this.
The son didn't have to go into the house, look for his father, wake him up or whatever and then give his speech; his father ran, hugged and kissed his son before hearing any words of repentance.

Christians who turn away and habitually sin may not believe that God can still love and be able to forgive them. They may not be able to FEEL that God loves them. But that doesn't mean that he doesn't.

Nothing can separate them from the love of God - except sin.

As Scripture says, "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
No one can have fellowship with God before they have repented of their sin. Repentance removes the barrier and restores the relationship. But that doesn't mean that God says, "when you've repented, THEN I will love you, and if you sin again, I will stop loving you."
 
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Suppose you’re a god and have 12 children which you Love totally unconditionally with the objective of the 12 being to just accepted you’re unconditional Love as pure charity and thus be gifted with this same Love, they will Love others and you with unconditional Love (really be like you). The problem is they all start out naturally selfish and just want to be loved for how they want others to perceive them to be. The only way for them to live happily with you is to want this unconditional Love. As an incentive to have this Love, you warn all your children: “If you’re not going to be happy living with me, you can leave, but eventually you will go to hell.” There are children who get lost and do not even know they are lost (like the lost coin) and you seek them out and bring them home. Other children wander too far away and know they are lost but do not know the way home (like a lost lamb) so you goes after them. But some children intentionally willfully leave and do not want to stay with you (like the prodigal son). You do not go after them, partly to show those still at home they need to have the desire to be in your house and to realize your true to your warnings. You get to express your Love in the greatest of way for all your children by showing your Love for a rebellious disobedient child. In this way you do get some “good” out of the rebellious disobedient child who will never repent, by showing your unconditional Love and by this child being an example of what can happen to them.

If you go get the child, he will still be miserable at home and teach the other children: they do not have to obtain unconditional Love, since living in the house is your choice and not theirs.

There are similarities to God in this parable.
First you did not reply to my question of whether God still loves his child if he torments the child forever. Instead you offered your own scenario and avoided answering a direct question. Secondly, the common denominator in all 3 parables you cited is that the sheep, coin and son all REPENTED. They were all lost and separated from God but had to repent first in order to be restored to a loving relationship with the Father.
 
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First off: What type of “Loving relationship” can a rebellious disobedient nonbeliever have with God? God can Love the nonbeliever, but the nonbeliever is not accepting God’s love as charity, so there is no two way “relationship”?

Where in scripture do you find God having any “relationship” with a rebellious disobedient nonbeliever?

A relationship between God and man is established when man accepts God’s charity.

Man can break the relationship with God, but do not blame God for breaking the relationship?

God’s Love is always in the vine and those even “cut off” from God’s Love by their behavior can be graved back in by accepting God’s forgiveness.
Where did I write that God has a loving relationship with a nonbeliever?? I simply stated that God has love for the unbeliever as demonstrated by sending his Son to die for them. Obviously there is no loving relationship as the unbeliever is still unsaved. Please don't attribute to me words that I never wrote.

I never said “the rebellious disobedient have God’s Love”, because they do not, but that is because they are not accepting God’s Love and not because God does not Love them.
Again I ask you the question you have avoided. The disobedient end up in hell so does God still love them as he tortures them forever? A simple yes or no will suffice.
 
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God is not the one causing the torment. The torment is caused by our own choice to separate ourselves from God. God loves us all, forever and ever, and would desire *all* to make the choice to be with him, but some people simply never will and would suffer even greater torment if God were to force them to be with him against their wishes. We tend to like to blame God for our miseries, but he is not at fault.
No one is blaming God so your point is irrelevant. To claim that God is not causing the torment goes against the plain meaning of the scriptures. The lake of fire exists to express God's wrath - not love - upon the disobedient. His torment is the result of one's decisions/actions.
 
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How can sin separate us from God's love, when he loves sinners, and loved us while we were sinners - before we even knew him?
Do you see sin mentioned in Rom 8:35-39? Yes or no? While we WERE sinners (unsaved) God demonstrates his love by sending his son to atone for man's sins. However once we BECAME saints we need to maintain an obedient/abiding relationship with God. Unrepentant sin in the life of the believer separates him from God and his love. God did not send his son so we could go on sinning as Paul wrote that grace is not a license to sin. John wrote that those who practice sinning are of the devil.

Yes - and that only happens if a person continually and deliberately sins, refuses all opportunities to repent and dies, still adamant that he will not accept God.

When we sin, we remain out of fellowship with God for as long as it takes us to repent. That might be minutes, or days.
There is no evidence that God stops loving us during that time. I don't believe he can, God IS love. To stop loving would mean he stopped being - that is impossible. WE don't feel that love, or close relationship for a while when we sin - we may be consumed by guilt, or feel afraid in case we've "blown it" and he's stopped loving us. Something, incidentally, I believe the devil is keen to promote - anything to prevent us from repenting and returning to the cross. Sin causes a barrier, so maybe God's love can't "get through"; that doesn't mean it isn't there.
Paul plainly warned the Roman brethren that if they live according to the flesh, they will die. No ifs and or buts. Spiritual death by its very definition means eternal separation from God and his love. To claim that God's love "can't get through" is very doubtful as those who end up in the lake of fire are tormented forever. Do you really believe that God is still trying to express his love at that point?

Yes. But that doesn't mean that God doesn't love them and will only do so once they turn back to him. In the parable, the father was standing and looking out for his son. He may have been standing there for a while, waiting to welcome him home, even though his son was far away and could see this.
The son didn't have to go into the house, look for his father, wake him up or whatever and then give his speech; his father ran, hugged and kissed his son before hearing any words of repentance.


Christians who turn away and habitually sin may not believe that God can still love and be able to forgive them. They may not be able to FEEL that God loves them. But that doesn't mean that he doesn't.
So if the prodigal returned to home to his father without repenting, would the father still love him? Jesus stated twice that the prodigal was dead = spiritually dead. Spiritual death defined is separation from the love of God. If the prodigal did not repent, he would have remained spiritually dead and separated from God's love.

As Scripture says, "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
No one can have fellowship with God before they have repented of their sin. Repentance removes the barrier and restores the relationship. But that doesn't mean that God says, "when you've repented, THEN I will love you, and if you sin again, I will stop loving you."
Yes while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. However once sinners trust in the atoning blood of Jesus for the forgiveness of their sins, obedience is required for eternal life (Heb 5:9). To continue in HABITUAL sin is to live according to the flesh which results in spiritual death. God can no longer love someone who lives according to the flesh as that person demonstrates an unrepentant lifestyle. No repentance = no forgiveness = no love.
 
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No one is blaming God so your point is irrelevant. To claim that God is not causing the torment goes against the plain meaning of the scriptures. The lake of fire exists to express God's wrath - not love - upon the disobedient. His torment is the result of one's decisions/actions.

So what would God need to do to prove to you that he loves even the people who reject him? How could he become a more loving God and yet still be a just God?
 
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Do you see sin mentioned in Rom 8:35-39? Yes or no?

No, but I see the words "nor anything else in all creation".

Do you see the words "none of these things can separate us from God's love, only sin can do that", in Romans 8:38-39? Yes or no?

While we WERE sinners (unsaved) God demonstrates his love by sending his son to atone for man's sins. However once we BECAME saints we need to maintain an obedient/abiding relationship with God.

So God effectively said, "I will love sinners ONCE until they know me; after that, they have to earn my love"?
Where does Scripture say that God loves us if we don't sin but withdraws that love if we do?

God did not send his son so we could go on sinning

No, of course he didn't.
God showed his love for us by sending Jesus to die while we were still sinners, Romans 5:6-8.
Knowing that God has forgiven us, Christ ha cleansed us and we are free from sin, does NOT mean we can do whatever we like, including to sin. As I have said, this is what the Corinthian church believed, and Paul had to correct their error.
We love because God first loved us, and because we know we are loved and forgiven we go out and show our love for God by living for him, and as he wants us to live. But that doesn't mean that if we sin, God withdraws his love.
Sin is deliberate rebellion and disobedience against God, and falling short of his glory. Scripture also says, however, that if someone knows what to do and does not do it; it is sin.

How many times do you sin in a day? How many times are your thoughts, words, dreams, actions etc 100% pure? How many times do you KNOW you should do something - give to the poor, do the dishes, pray - but do not do it?
Are you really saying that God starts off by loving us, withdraws, and then reinstates, that love hundreds of times in one day? How exhausting for God. How uncertain for us; never having assurance, never being sure, at any given point, whether God loves us or whether we are harboring an unconfessed sin which has cut off his love.

Paul plainly warned the Roman brethren that if they live according to the flesh, they will die. No ifs and or buts.

Yes, if we constantly live according to the flesh, gratifying the sinful nature, and don't repent; we will.
He tells us in Galatians the actions that result from walking in the flesh. John also says this - walking in the flesh is the same as walking in darkness. If we CLAIM to walk in the light but hate our brothers or do any other deeds of darkness, we are deceiving ourselves. If we claim we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves; if we confess our sins God will forgive and cleanse us.
Nowhere does it say "as soon as you sin, God will stop loving you, and will only start again if you repent."

Spiritual death by its very definition means eternal separation from God and his love.

A person is only eternally separated from God and his love if they are dead, they rejected him while alive and they are now not able to repent.

To claim that God's love "can't get through" is very doubtful as those who end up in the lake of fire are tormented forever. Do you really believe that God is still trying to express his love at that point?

You seem to be talking only about people who have died. I'm talking about people who are alive, yet may sin and temporarily not feel God's love or forgiveness.
God doesn't SEND anyone to hell; he honours the choices that person has made while they were alive. If someone constantly and continually refuses to repent, and rejects God and his forgiveness; when they die, they will continue to live without him - for all eternity. And yes, I do believe that is love; to allow someone to do something that THEY have chosen. It wouldn't be love to say "you hated me while you were on earth, I'm now going to FORCE you to be with me". That wouldn't be possible anyway because the person would have died in their sins; but love does not force itself on anyone, or force them to love back.

So if the prodigal returned to home to his father without repenting, would the father still love him?

As I said, the father hugged and kissed his son BEFORE the son had repented - see Luke 15:20.
The father wanted his son home - and showed his love and joy when the son returned home. Nowhere are we told that the father said, "ok, now that you've repented, you may have your hug. Before you get the cloak, ring and party you have to promise not to go off again, and if I hear you criticising or grumbling, we stop the party and I'll have the ring back."

Jesus stated twice that the prodigal was dead = spiritually dead.

He was at that point. He was separated from his father and from God by his sin. That doesn't mean that either of them stopped loving him.

I don't know if you have children.
If you do, do you reject and stop loving them, the first time they do something wrong, or any time that they sin? If they chose a lifestyle that you didn't approve of, would you stop loving them, and only start again once they adopted your values and started doing what you wanted? If they borrowed your car without asking and crashed it/took your credit card without you knowing and bought something you wouldn't approve of; would you stop loving them, stop being a loving father, and disown them until they had repented? If you would; with respect, I pity your children.
God is not like that.

Spiritual death defined is separation from the love of God. If the prodigal did not repent, he would have remained spiritually dead and separated from God's love.

Yes, but that doesn't mean that God would have stopped loving him, and stopped looking out for him, hoping he would come home and giving him opportunities to repent.
Paul says that love perseveres, always hopes, always trusts and never fails, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. NOT that love gives up and withdraws if the other person fails to appreciate it or show love back.

Yes while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. However once sinners trust in the atoning blood of Jesus for the forgiveness of their sins, obedience is required for eternal life (Heb 5:9).

So you're saying that Jesus saves us from sin, but only by our works and own achievements will we get eternal life?
That's not what Jesus said. He said that whoever believes in him will have eternal life, John 4:14, John 6:40, John 10:10, John 14:6.
John said that whoever has the Son has life, John 3:16, John 3:36, 1 John 5:12. Not that whoever believes in Jesus has been saved and will get eternal life, and remain loved by God, if they work hard.

To continue in HABITUAL sin is to live according to the flesh which results in spiritual death.

Yes, RESULTS IN - after we die.
And that is habitual, and unconfessed, sin. I'm talking about when we sin in our everyday lives and then confess; I have said that we are separated from God, and his forgiveness, until we repent. Even then, God doesn't withdraw his love until we have said sorry or done something to prove ourselves.

God can no longer love someone who lives according to the flesh as that person demonstrates an unrepentant lifestyle.

God IS love; we are told in Scripture that love perseveres and never fails.
God doesn't HAVE love, that he either shows or withholds; he IS love. I don't believe he can stop loving or he would stop being God.

No repentance = no forgiveness = no love.

That's not what Scripture says.
God loves sinners - people who don't know him, are godless, maybe even hate him and don't show signs of wanting to repent.
There is no Scripture which says that after they are saved they have to earn eternal life and his love, and that either will be withdrawn if they don't live up to expectations.

Jesus once said to his disciples, "If you love only those who love you, what reward will you get? Even the tax collectors do that. .......... Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect." Matthew 5:46-48.

Why would he have said that if he knew that God would only love them if they continued to love him and not sin? He would have been asking them to be better than God - "you must love those who don't show you love, but my Father will only love you if you love him."
Whatever Jesus asked us to do; he set the example. He showed us exactly what God is like, by his life and actions.
 
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First you did not reply to my question of whether God still loves his child if he torments the child forever. Instead you offered your own scenario and avoided answering a direct question. Secondly, the common denominator in all 3 parables you cited is that the sheep, coin and son all REPENTED. They were all lost and separated from God but had to repent first in order to be restored to a loving relationship with the Father.
I see degrees of "punishment" in hell and eventual annihilation, but that is another subject. Yes God Loves those while in hell, but they are not in hell because God loves them, but they are in hell for the sack of others God loves even more, since some will use "hell" as part of their incentive to accept God's Love.
 
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Again I ask you the question you have avoided. The disobedient end up in hell so does God still love them as he tortures them forever? A simple yes or no will suffice.
I see degrees of "punishment" in hell and eventual annihilation, but that is another subject. Yes, God Loves those while in hell, but they are not in hell because God loves them, but they are in hell for the sack of others God loves even more, since some will use "hell" as part of their incentive to accept God's Love.
One of the benefits to disciplining a child is for the other children to see, but the child who goes to hell is not being disciplined but God is allowing him to be punished in the only place where God is not.
We have the choice of accepting fair/just/Loving disciplining by God or refuse the discipline and go to be punished in hell.
 
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God loves all sinners. God hates all sin.

Romans 5:8
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Believers become "sheep" upon salvation. They follow the Good Shepherd. John 10

Some go astray but are found. Matthew 18:12-14

But a "child of God" is a special sheep: full benefits of salvation.

John 1:
12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become "children of God",
even to those who believe in His name,
13 who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of (the will of)God.

The Word Made Flesh

14 And the Word became flesh, and dwelt among us,
and we saw His glory, glory as of the only begotten from the Father, full of grace and truth.

Sheep = Believers => heavenly realms
Goats = UN- Believers => "lake of fire"

God judges / treats them differently!

Matthew 25:46

2 Corinthians 6 (NASB)...Believers' Ministry Commended by Paul
14 Do not be bound together (yoked) with unbelievers; for
what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or
what fellowship has light with darkness? 15 Or
what harmony has Christ with Belial, or
what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? 16 Or
what agreement has the temple of God with idols?
For we (Believers) are the temple of the living God...
 
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So what would God need to do to prove to you that he loves even the people who reject him? How could he become a more loving God and yet still be a just God?
Those who reject God end up in the lake of fire - the purpose of which is endless punishment and torment as the expression of God's wrath for that rejection. Yet you claim that God still loves these people as he subjects them to endless torment? That is quite a contradiction.
 
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