Since my wife left 24 years ago I've been the subject of a vicious hate campaign which has involved our kids, friends and her relatives. For the first seven years I wasn't aware of it though I did notice a distancing from me by the kids which their growing independence couldn't explain.
Cutting to the chase it's resulted in my not seeing any of the kids for over 15 years and not being involved in my two grandchildren's lives, indeed I haven't even seen one of them.
I'll take whatever life throws at me and deal with it the best way I can but I'd be really really take comfort from the fact that this is God's will. However there is one other issue playing on my mind. I don't think anyone who hasn't suffered something like this could have the faintest idea how it feels to be hated by everyone, including one's own kids, the fact that it's unjustified only makes it worse. So my second issue is - when I eventually pop off I don't have any serious concerns about being judged and if God really is a God of love and forgiveness (which I'm sure He is) does that mean that my ex will get away with what she's done? It wouldn't surprise me as she's got away with murder during her lifetime - she always did have a charmed life. I only wish those virtual knives she's used on my back were real.
Cutting to the chase it's resulted in my not seeing any of the kids for over 15 years and not being involved in my two grandchildren's lives, indeed I haven't even seen one of them.
I'll take whatever life throws at me and deal with it the best way I can but I'd be really really take comfort from the fact that this is God's will. However there is one other issue playing on my mind. I don't think anyone who hasn't suffered something like this could have the faintest idea how it feels to be hated by everyone, including one's own kids, the fact that it's unjustified only makes it worse. So my second issue is - when I eventually pop off I don't have any serious concerns about being judged and if God really is a God of love and forgiveness (which I'm sure He is) does that mean that my ex will get away with what she's done? It wouldn't surprise me as she's got away with murder during her lifetime - she always did have a charmed life. I only wish those virtual knives she's used on my back were real.