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The Opener of Locks
If you read the OP's post. She is working to save the relationship. She loves him. She wanted to be with him. She wanted to be his wife, and the mother of his child. To Her, Sex was an expression of that Want.
Which is exactly what Sex should be.
He, wanted to get his rocks off and she was nothing but a means to gratify himself. In other words he wanted to use her for a little play time and move on.
Which is exactly what Sex should NOT be.
So, in this one scenario, Yes, I am pinning it all on the man. And he is not doing her any favors staying around. If he is unhappy, then he is making her life unhappy, and they are both going to have a rotten life and raise a problematic child.
Better for him to just move on, pay for his mistake of funning himself, and learn from next time how to keep his needs in his pants.
God Bless
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The Opener of Locks
Not casual. I honestly do not think any of us look at this casually. Many of us have witnessed first hand these things happen, and after seeing two people decay, dissolve into shadows of their former self because they stayed in hopeless problematic marries far longer then they should have, we think, he realize that there was no solution, and we see the major warning signs and when we see it happen to someone else, painfully, with grit teeth our memories fall back to our family member we saw rot from the inside out in a horrible marriage and we do our best to offer salvation in the only means we know of.
In some cases, that family member is the person we see in the mirror every morning, and we knew the only real solution was to have left years ago.
Hindsight is 20/20 or so they say. But please do entertain that I am saying any of this casually.
God Bless
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