First I assured him that Dad and I love him more than anything in the world. Then I started to say.."We tried to stay married.....and he went screaming and crying from the room. Now he is locked in his room and won't talk to me.
He will be 11 in August. He knows that his dad and I don't get along. I found this out be watching Dr. Phil with him and asking if he thought we fought a lot. He said we didn't fight but argued continuously!
Anyhow. His dad refused to help me with the conversation. Said he would not help me tell him of the divorce.
The reason I am divorcing (if you haven't seen previous posts) is because he has lied to me from the beginning of our relationship and after 1.5 years of dating (not knowing he was a habitual liar and inappropriate content addict), then 12 years of lies, inappropriate content and finally cheating I have had enough!!
I spent the last 11 months trying to make myself stay with my husband for my son's sake but it is just not possible.
Any help from people who have had to tell their children, old enough to understand, would be greatly appreciated.
I feel like we are in crisis. I need to save my son's heart and soul from crumbling. I realize how bad divorce is and wouldnt do it if there were any way for me to stay married to his father.
HELP. PLEASE.......
He will be 11 in August. He knows that his dad and I don't get along. I found this out be watching Dr. Phil with him and asking if he thought we fought a lot. He said we didn't fight but argued continuously!
Anyhow. His dad refused to help me with the conversation. Said he would not help me tell him of the divorce.
The reason I am divorcing (if you haven't seen previous posts) is because he has lied to me from the beginning of our relationship and after 1.5 years of dating (not knowing he was a habitual liar and inappropriate content addict), then 12 years of lies, inappropriate content and finally cheating I have had enough!!
I spent the last 11 months trying to make myself stay with my husband for my son's sake but it is just not possible.
Any help from people who have had to tell their children, old enough to understand, would be greatly appreciated.
I feel like we are in crisis. I need to save my son's heart and soul from crumbling. I realize how bad divorce is and wouldnt do it if there were any way for me to stay married to his father.
HELP. PLEASE.......