Hi everyone. I was reading all the posts in the thread "Talking to the Pastor alone?" and it gave me an idea.
During my time in the Pentecostal/Charismatic church, I heard a number of times people say that a person (especially a young person) shouldn't go to the home of a member of the opposite sex-when that person is home alone. Because the neighbours might see and might become suspicious and cause a bad witness. I always found it interesting that the primary reason for not going to the home of a member of the opposite sex was not that it would lead you into adult temptations. You know-just you and the other person alone together away from prying eyes. But that the neighbours might see. Honestly, I wish I had a dollar for everytime I heard this. And I also found it hard to believe that any but the most pesky and nosey neighbour would give two hoots who was entering the front door next to them. I know I don't.
But I've asked this question before and nobody has ever being able to answer me. So in light of this other thread, I'll ask it again.
"How do I visit my single and alone living attractive female cousin?" If I have to worry about the neighbours seeing me enter her front door. Now, you may say to yourself:
"But that's different-she's blood relations". But here's the rub-the neighbours don't know that!
So if anyone around here believes we should not enter the home of a member of the opposite sex, can you please explain to me how do I visit a blood relation of the opposite sex when they are living alone? As I said, the neighbours don't know I'm family. Therefore if they don't know that, a bad Christian witness is established.
During my time in the Pentecostal/Charismatic church, I heard a number of times people say that a person (especially a young person) shouldn't go to the home of a member of the opposite sex-when that person is home alone. Because the neighbours might see and might become suspicious and cause a bad witness. I always found it interesting that the primary reason for not going to the home of a member of the opposite sex was not that it would lead you into adult temptations. You know-just you and the other person alone together away from prying eyes. But that the neighbours might see. Honestly, I wish I had a dollar for everytime I heard this. And I also found it hard to believe that any but the most pesky and nosey neighbour would give two hoots who was entering the front door next to them. I know I don't.
But I've asked this question before and nobody has ever being able to answer me. So in light of this other thread, I'll ask it again.
"How do I visit my single and alone living attractive female cousin?" If I have to worry about the neighbours seeing me enter her front door. Now, you may say to yourself:
"But that's different-she's blood relations". But here's the rub-the neighbours don't know that!
So if anyone around here believes we should not enter the home of a member of the opposite sex, can you please explain to me how do I visit a blood relation of the opposite sex when they are living alone? As I said, the neighbours don't know I'm family. Therefore if they don't know that, a bad Christian witness is established.