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I'm posting this because I've been questioning my position on prayer for a while now. My thoughts have been that God's will triumphs, regardless of how or what you pray for.
Anyway, read this story and tell me your thoughts. It's marriage related, so it qualifies.
Source: http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_29826.aspx
Anyway, read this story and tell me your thoughts. It's marriage related, so it qualifies.
Source: http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_29826.aspx
It was to be the marriage proposal of a lifetime, a question popped in the most romantic movie-like setting imaginable.
But it ended in a way that will forever haunt a would-be groom.
When Scott Napper decided to propose to 22-year-old Leafil Alforque, he wanted it to be perfect. So on Monday, he took his beloved up to a place called Proposal Rock near Neskowin Beach, Oregon, several hundred kilometres from Portland.
Everything seemed perfect for the pair. They'd met online in 2005 and she'd just arrived from the Philippines three days before, after waiting to get a visa to come to the U.S.
They climbed to the elevated spot and he was about to take out a ring and ask for her hand.
And then fate stepped in.
A huge wave about three feet high suddenly swept in from nowhere and headed straight for them. Napper heard the roar and tried to grab Alforque, but it was too late.
The 4'11", 93-pound woman was caught in the rush of swollen water and was swept away, virtually out of the arms of her future husband.
The 45-year-old jumped in after her, but watched helplessly as she disappeared into the lake. His efforts to rescue her were dashed when she sank beneath the waves.
"She was about nine metres away, getting swept away," he recalls, with tears in his eyes. "That's the last I saw of her."
Rescue crews arrived quickly and dove into the surf, looking for any sign of the missing woman. They still haven't found her and bad weather and darkness forced their efforts to a halt.
Alforque's devastated family doesn't blame Napper for the tragedy but hopes her body can be recovered so she can receive a proper burial. Her sister says her mother is inconsolable.
"My mother is always crying, day and night," reveals Nova Alforque, back in the Philippines. "She wants my sister back. Even if she is dead, she wants her body to bury."
It's something she shares with the man who would have been her son-in-law.
"I yelled for her," Napper remembers. "I was praying to God."
But his prayers weren't answered.
Police probing the death say they don't suspect any foul play and believe it's simply a case of bad timing and almost unbelievable bad luck.