need advice from a pastor/strong believer

crw9r6 said:

http://christianforums.com/t6530631-i-got-myself-in-an-akward-situation-help-please.html

I think I posted in the wrong place for what im looking for, so if you would please follow that link and give me any advice I would greatly appreciate it, I am in need of help right now, so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Have you taken any of the advice given?
If not why ask for more advice.
Are you looking for someone to say to do what it is you really want to do so that you can say, so-and-so said it was ok, that's why I did it

I highly recommend reading the Bible, asking God to help you follow it with pure heart, asking His forgiveness. Also try to get friends who will be positive influence on you, like Bible study group or something similar.

I've experienced many of the same things in your post, and God and the Bible are much better than what sin has to offer.

one other important thing to remember, just because you've lost your virginity doesn't mean you should continue on and make sex a habit. every encounter outside of marriage is adultery, and you are putting yourself at risk with each encounter for diseases and unplanned pregnancy. Kind of seems your relationship is heavily sex-based. that is not healthy, you should really try to make more healthy positive friendships that focus on other things, continue in Bible study too. be careful, take care.

Look it's obvious you know what is right and what is wrong. You've stopped with some of your addictions. I really don't know what you expect anyone to say. Listen to the Holy Spirit, be controlled by God's love. You evidently know what to do already. You aren't some animal that can't help it, you have the Spirit to help you.

Marv

crw9r6 said:

http://christianforums.com/t6530631-i-got-myself-in-an-akward-situation-help-please.html

I think I posted in the wrong place for what im looking for, so if you would please follow that link and give me any advice I would greatly appreciate it, I am in need of help right now, so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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It's time to give your WHOLE heart, mind, strength, and soul to GOD and once and for all AGREE to do things HIS WAY!!!


For if you do this and it comes true from your heart you SHALL be ANOINTED by GOD with HIS HOLY SPIRIT. For then you shall receive a TEACHER, COMFORTER, GUIDE, and COMUNICATOR. No longer will you be tied to man but have a DIRECT line to GOD as then your CHURCH will be the KINGDOM of ALMIGHTY GOD.


Anything less than doing this is JUST A WASTE OF TIME!!!


REMEMBER:


“ Believe “ in Greek is a verb and has three components which are: hearing, accepting, and then " ACTING " upon that which you have accepted. X Even though you can't see him, GOD is there!!! O ( click on the x and drag to the O ) ( then see who is with you ) steven

crw9r6--- well, after reading your post i must say that i can see your concern.....you obviously know that your actions are not what the Lord would be pleased with so you feel convicted.......if you weren't then you wouldn't be feeling the way you do......first of all, it's great that you're dealing with your addictions and just make sure to flee from those temptations....don't put yourself in a situation to be tempted to turn back......as far as things go with you and your gf.......you said you can't see yourself with her and it's only leading her on as well as yourself to stay in a relationship that you feel the Lord doesn't want you in (that's assuming you've prayed about it)......it's not fair to her or to you.........i know after being intimate with someone that can keep you attached, but if she's not the one for you then pray and ask God to give you the strength to let go and heal your heart and be obedient to the Lord......i know you said you can't see yourself with a virgin wife now, but if you've asked for forgiveness and turned from that sin then you are washed white as snow.....you are pure again and the women that God has for you (if she's a virgin) will see that and understand that and love you regardless........keep seeking after God and ask the Holy Spirit to show you what you need to do......Pray, trust, and be obedient.....good luck!!