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Wow if everything that happened to me in my life was because God was letting me down then I would have to agree, there is no God.


It's crazy how you can come through the hardest times in your life, times where you just aren't sure you can make it through another day. I look back on all of those times and I realize that at the end of all the suffering and misery, I wound up exactly where I should be.

Life won't be easy and God didn't promise us that. He did promise us that if we trust in Him, He will take care of us. Have faith.

Right now I am going through a very bad financial time. I have thought to blame God and question Him several times. The difference is that I have been here before and done this. At the end of the day, God has never let me down.

Sometimes, we think He is letting us down because we cannot fathom what His plan may be. Why am I hungry? Why will my electricity be turned off? Why do I have no running water? Why God? I cannot tell you how many times I have asked these questions. I am blessed because through it all I haven't given up faith in Him.

I know that at the end of this "drought" something better is waiting for me.

It's all about patience, trust and most of all faith.

I will pray that you have the ability to carry on in your faith for as long as it takes to see His will working in your life. :prayer: :prayer: :prayer:
 
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During times of tribulation is when god is testing your faith. To see if it is genuine. Remember jesus talking about the seeds falling on the ground, and one of them was that they grew but when troubles and tribulations happened in life they withered away..

God has tested me so much. And it was actually during the times that I overcame problems that I felt the precense of god. He is simply testing my faith, putting the gold in the fire.

it is during these times when you must stay with your faith the strongest as its ever been. Remember God isnt a magic genie where you pray for something you want, and then you get it.. he wouldnt be God then.
 
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Do you think Jesus thought this way? All the injustice and suffering that He went through. Of course not and you shouldnt either.

Well, there is the part where our Lord is being crucified and he said, "My God,,y God, why have you forsaken me?" Was it regarding dispair by our Lord at his darkest hour? Well, even if we say it was part of the Psalm that our Lord was reciting, and the whole account in the Gospel is set with the intention to give the imagery of the Psalm as being a foretelling of this event, one aspect of what is going on has an element of dispair in it. Does that mean that we should reject God at a time of trouble? No. But it also doesn't mean that we should overreact to a person's expression of dispair. Instead, the best we could do is understand the sorrow of those in dispair and encourage them, as well as offering petitions and prayers for them in their time of need. And by all means, anyone who can give direct asistance should make an effort to do so.

But, in the end, it is God's will to be done. So, all I can say to the OP is that, if you didn't get the job that you expected, it may be that it wasn't meant to be. None the less, keep open your options and focus on both your relationship with God and keep looking for the opportunities to come. Something can, and may indeed come to you that may not have been so obvious. And what may have seemed like the perfect fit for a job might not have really been so. You may be called to something quite different from what you may initially expect to be called to do.

Pax Tecum,

John
 
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Another thing is I can get spiritual inspiration from the most unlikely sources. Like the chourus of Ashlee Simpson's "Catch Me When I Fall"

Inspiration does happen that way at times. I have found a couple anime to be similar for me. One called Kanon (I believe this may be the Japanese word for "wish") is a beautiful folklorish story set in modern day Japan. It's kind of soap operah-ish, being that it has the staple pivotal moments in the plot that have to do with tragic accidents that send people to the hospital, and the tense moments about whether the person will live or die. But it also has mythical/fantasy moments that become more obvious towards the end of the series. Mainly, it is the general quality of human virtue of people making friendships, helping each other out through tough times, and even making personal sacrifices at key moments for the benefit of others. These are the things that I find inspirational, and for reasons that seem obvious in reflection and pondering about the human virtues we are taught as being universal in the Catechism. Not to mention the power that is within these virtues that come from one source: love. And love itself comes from God and is God. And because of this connection, tragedies and times when we ourselves find ourselves in times of need, God can and does come to us in ways that are not very obvious to us at the time - or at least seem like odd places to be feeling the pressence of God in our lives. But it is that love and that pressence of God that brings forth the inspiration that helps us to carry on.

Pax Tecum,

John
 
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Things have gone from bad to worse. I got a letter from the place I had the interview at saying they don't have any openings and my application will be kept on file. This really confuses me because when I was interviewed I was told they have so many jobs and don't have enough people to handle the accounts they have.

I was told at the interview I would be called up with the job offer by last Friday that he was recommending me for a full time assignment.

The only reason I haven't commit suicide yet is because I don't want to go to Hell and because about the easiest way I can think of doing it is carbon monoxide and there is no practical way for me to accomplish that.

Once I get done of my job on Saturday I am basically a bum and my life is meaningless at that point. I don't know why I bother to pray anymore because I don't ask for much and He hasn't answered any of my prayers yet...he just gives me more crap in my life.
 
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The only reason I haven't commit suicide yet is because I don't want to go to Hell and because about the easiest way I can think of doing it is carbon monoxide and there is no practical way for me to accomplish that.

Once I get done of my job on Saturday I am basically a bum and my life is meaningless at that point. I don't know why I bother to pray anymore because I don't ask for much and He hasn't answered any of my prayers yet...he just gives me more crap in my life.


So you didn't get the job. so what? It isn't the end of the world, no matter how much it might seem like it. You're talking to a person that spent nearly a year looking for work right out of college, then finally beginning to start substitute teaching only to then start back at school to get certified to become a teacher. Do you think it's easy to have a fairly low paying job that barely pays for tuition? No, it's not. But it's not something I see as a reason to commit suicide over, despite my frustrations. Life is going to give you crap no matter what. But it's much easier to deal with the crap when you have some type of relationship with God. And besides, like I said earlier, maybe this job just wasn't meant to be and there may be something else to come along that you are called to do. Just don't give up - that's the worst thing to do. Not to mention that nothing gets fulfilled just by you sitting around hoping it will or moping that something hasn't happened. Just get out there and see what you find. And keep asking people for help.

Pax Tecum,

John
 
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BTW, just a helpful bit of advice while you're job hunting, don't put all yoor eggs in one basket. You never know when something that looks like a sure thing might turn out not to be. Besides, you're in a better position when you have to decline jobs because one of them called you in and hired you rather than getting called in and having no back ups. Just consider this time of job hunting as work and do it as professionally (networking, checking out professional job recruiting organizations like Work Source, etc) as you possibly can. Eventually, and as long as you put yourself out there, you'll find work.

Pax Tecum,

John
 
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This is more than just not having a job after graduating. It's about not having a job to pay any of my bills. The only reason I have a roof over my head and food to eat is because I am living with my parents.

I still have other bills to pay and no money to pay them. I was fired from my job before this for something I didn't do. I was thinking of getting a lawyer and suing the company I used to work for but that happened almost a year ago so I am sure I waited too long...not to mention the fact I have no money to hire a lawyer. In fact I am sure it's this company that's screwing me out of getting any other jobs.

Now I had to leave my current job for health reasons so I can't work at any jobs that require heavy lifting which already limits me. At this point I will be lucky if Wal Mart would hire me to be a greeter.
 
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This is more than just not having a job after graduating. It's about not having a job to pay any of my bills. The only reason I have a roof over my head and food to eat is because I am living with my parents.

I still have other bills to pay and no money to pay them. I was fired from my job before this for something I didn't do. I was thinking of getting a lawyer and suing the company I used to work for but that happened almost a year ago so I am sure I waited too long...not to mention the fact I have no money to hire a lawyer. In fact I am sure it's this company that's screwing me out of getting any other jobs.

Now I had to leave my current job for health reasons so I can't work at any jobs that require heavy lifting which already limits me. At this point I will be lucky if Wal Mart would hire me to be a greeter.

At least you weren't like me going to jail for nothing I did. How would you like sitting in jail for nothing. Did I think like you. No. My faith was tested. I never doubted God or His love. Think of the ppl that sit in jail for multiple years and are innocent. Your job or non job would be a great blessing in their eyes. Like I said before I gone through alot ( and a job is the least of them!)

My brother-in-law ( my husbands only sibling) shot himself in the head about 10 years ago and will not be graphic in the results because you can image the result in a room of someone doing that. Our family has suffered greatly because of that and for no reason. My BIL was in a bad place. Your place would of been heaven of earth compared to his, so to speak. His death has been a shadow over everything. If only... he had your problems.

Of course our problems to us seem to be the worse problems, they are not. do you have a terminal illness? do you live in a country that has genocide? do you have no money or live in a country you cannot go for at least 1 meal a day? do you have no where to live that even the salvation army will not let you in?

My gosh, you are blessed compared to most ppl on earth. Realize that today. You have no right to complain.

Here are some verses for you!

Sir 2:1Son, when thou comest to the service of God, stand in justice and in fear, and prepare thy soul for temptation.
2Humble thy heart, and endure: incline thy ear, and receive the words of understanding: and make not haste in the time of clouds.
3Wait on God with patience: join thyself to God, and endure, that thy life may be increased in the latter end.
4Take all that shall be brought upon thee: and in thy sorrow endure, and in thy humiliation keep patience.
5For gold and silver are tried in the fire, but acceptable men in the furnace of humiliation.
6Believe God, and he will recover thee: and direct thy way, and trust in him. Keep his fear, and grow old therein.
7Ye that fear the Lord, wait for his mercy: and go not aside from him lest ye fall.
8Ye that fear the Lord, believe him: and your reward shall not be made void.
9Ye that fear the Lord hope in him, and mercy shall come to you for your delight.

with love. Darlene.
 
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For a Person under Affliction.


O MERCIFUL God, and heavenly Father, who hast taught us in thy holy Word that thou dost not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men; Look with pity, we beseech thee, upon the sorrows of thy servant for whom our prayers are offered. Remember him, O Lord, in mercy; endue his soul with patience; comfort him with a sense of thy goodness; lift up thy countenance upon him, and give him peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.


I'm praying for you, Brother...
 
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well hey, if that's what you believe, good for you!


Now maybe this happened for a reason though. Just like when I realized I was gay, I really really got MUCH more religious. or when i lost my job once, i met a really cool guy while at some place, and now we are best friends. you see.. maybe something good will happen out of this.. give it time, and it will get better. maybe this happened because the job you interviewed for woulnd't be perfect, or there would be a better one out in the future.

I will pray for you, and I will pray that your life gets back to normal and good. :)

Good luck!
 
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This is more than just not having a job after graduating. It's about not having a job to pay any of my bills. The only reason I have a roof over my head and food to eat is because I am living with my parents.

Um, where do you think I'm at? My parents house. Believe me, there are more in this situation in our age group than you might think. As a sub, about all I'm able to really pay for is tuition and help out a little with some living expences. There's no way I could attend college and live in an apartment just on a substitute pay check. When you think about it, we are both in a similar situation, though at the moment I have a job. Regardless, consider it a blessing that you have understanding parents that will help you out in your time of need. Part of life is learning about who you can depend upon to be there for you in times of need. There are people out there that do not (or at least dont think they do) have people that they can depend on to be there for them, and that is a sad state of life to be in. Sometimes we have to reach out to get help. Prayer is good and beneficial, but so is communication and making known that you need help. In part, it's a lesson in humility, and in another part, is a way of growing to understand how, though we may be independent and self-governing individuals, we still are independant on each other - especially in regards to family.

I still have other bills to pay and no money to pay them. I was fired from my job before this for something I didn't do. I was thinking of getting a lawyer and suing the company I used to work for but that happened almost a year ago so I am sure I waited too long...not to mention the fact I have no money to hire a lawyer. In fact I am sure it's this company that's screwing me out of getting any other jobs.

It's hard to say. But obviously you may not want to have anyone there be a reference for you if that truly is the case. But honestly, I don't know why any company would hold a grudge for over a year on a person. But none the less, you still have to keep trying to look for a job. You may have to consider which bills you may need to get an extension on, or whatever. After college, and especially while I was looking for a job, I had to cancel various bills, explaining that I don't have the money to keep paying them, but will come back at a later time when my finances are more secure.

Now I had to leave my current job for health reasons so I can't work at any jobs that require heavy lifting which already limits me. At this point I will be lucky if Wal Mart would hire me to be a greeter.

Well, Wal Mart or some other job in retail is at least a start, and something that will help pay a few bills. But even if you do take it, keep looking around and keep your options open. I hear Safeway has certain employee benefits, including health care. So keep considering what options may be open and will at least help to pay some of the bills. And once you get to a point where you feel more steady of your feet, then widen your spectrum of jobs you think you can take on.

I'm not saying that this will be easy, but I understand to some extent what you're going through. But perseverance has many rewards, and carrying your cross (even with a bit of help) is likely to make you stronger in the long-run. Just don't give up and fight the dispair.

Pax Tecum,

John
 
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Thank you for your prayers...they do help and deep in my heart I know God is real. I also have started giving up on myself. I have fallen several times into a mortal sin that I have been battling for years. The more things go wrong and the more despair I feel, the easier it is to fall into the temptation of this sin.

I just don't know what to do. I hope God is able to guide me.

I recently read a sermon by the Holy Father entitled "Never despair of God's mercy." It helped me through a tough time and I believe it will give you some hope. Especially with grave sins and falling into temptation.... there is no limit to forgiveness. And I know you well enough to know that you know mercy is not a license to sin, but a reason to rejoice!

Think of what God personally did for you... if you were the only human on the planet, Christ still would have gone to the cross for you. Know that. And do you think God will ever give up on you? NEVER! :crossrc:

Read below what the Holy Father says about Peter - the source of your screenname!

Pope Benedict XVI: Never Despair of God's Mercy

On Judas Iscariot and Matthias
"Never Despair of God's Mercy"

VATICAN CITY, OCT. 18, 2006 (Zenit.org).- Here is a translation of the address Benedict XVI gave at today's general audience, dedicated to present the figures of Judas Iscariot and Matthias.

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Dear Brothers and Sisters:

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This mystery is even more profound if one thinks of his eternal fate, knowing that Judas "repented and brought back the 30 pieces of silver to the chief priests and the elders, saying 'I have sinned in betraying innocent blood'" (Matthew 27:3-4). Though he departed afterward to hang himself (cf. Matthew 27:5), it is not for us to judge his gesture, putting ourselves in God's place, who is infinitely merciful and just.

A second question affects the motive of Judas' behavior: Why did he betray Jesus? The question raises several theories. Some say it was his greed for money; others give an explanation of a messianic nature: Judas was disappointed on seeing that Jesus did not fit the program of the political-military liberation of his country.

In fact, the Gospel texts insist on another aspect: John says expressly that "the devil had already put it into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, to betray him" (John 13:2); in the same way, Luke writes: "Satan entered into Judas called Iscariot, who was of the number of the twelve" (Luke 22:3).

In this way, one goes beyond historical motivations, explaining what occurred by basing it on Judas' personal responsibility, who yielded miserably to a temptation of the evil one. In any case, Judas' betrayal continues to be a mystery. Jesus treated him as a friend (cf. Matthew 26:50), but in his invitations to follow him on the path of the beatitudes he did not force his will or prevent him from falling into Satan's temptations, respecting human freedom.

In fact, the possibilities of perversion of the human heart are truly many. The only way to prevent them consists in not cultivating a view of life that is only individualistic, autonomous, but in always placing oneself on the side of Jesus, assuming his point of view.

We must try, day after day, to be in full communion with him. Let us recall that even Peter wanted to oppose him and what awaited him in Jerusalem, but he received a very strong rebuke: "Get behind me, Satan! For you are not on the side of God, but of men" (Mark 8:32-33).

After his fall, Peter repented and found forgiveness and grace. Judas also repented, but his repentance degenerated into despair and in this way it became self-destruction. It is an invitation for us to always remember what St. Benedict says at the end of Chapter 5 -- fundamental -- of his Rule: "Never despair of God's mercy." In fact, "God is greater than our hearts," as St. John says (1 John 3:20).

Let us remember two things. The first: Jesus respects our freedom. The second: Jesus waits for us to have the disposition to repent and to be converted; he is rich in mercy and forgiveness. In fact, when we think of the negative role Judas played, we must frame it in the higher way with which God disposed the events.

His betrayal led to the death of Jesus who transformed this tremendous torment into a space of salvific love and in self-giving to the Father (cf. Galatians 2:20; Ephesians 5:2.25). The verb "betray" is the Greek version which means "to give up." At times its subject is also God himself in person: Out of love, he "gave up" Jesus for us all (cf. Romans 8:32). In his mysterious plan of salvation, God assumes Judas' unjustifiable gesture as the motive for the total giving up of the Son for the redemption of the world.

On concluding, we wish to recall also he who, after Easter, was chosen to replace the traitor. In the Church of Jerusalem, two were put forward to the community and then lots were cast for their names: "Joseph called Barsabbas, who was surnamed Justus, and Matthias" (Acts 1:23).

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full text of sermon: http://www.zenit.org/english/visualizza.phtml?sid=96775

 
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It's not just your age-group that have to live with their parents. For most of my marriage I had to live with my father-in-law. I am 42 years old and, for the sake of my children, I have to live with my FIL. We've been homeless, accommodated in temporary B&B (shared) accommodation, with no garden. So we had to go back to my FIL despite the fact that we do not get on with him and he made our lives hell.

But I still believe in God. I thank God for the fact that I can live with my FIL. What if I did not have that option? For my life to work, I had to change myself. Get rid of the ego. After being homeless, it was easier. I had been humiliated. So going back to my FIL did not seem that bad.

God is still there and He loves us.
 
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It's not just your age-group that have to live with their parents. For most of my marriage I had to live with my father-in-law. I am 42 years old and, for the sake of my children, I have to live with my FIL. We've been homeless, accommodated in temporary B&B (shared) accommodation, with no garden. So we had to go back to my FIL despite the fact that we do not get on with him and he made our lives hell.

But I still believe in God. I thank God for the fact that I can live with my FIL. What if I did not have that option? For my life to work, I had to change myself. Get rid of the ego. After being homeless, it was easier. I had been humiliated. So going back to my FIL did not seem that bad.

God is still there and He loves us.
Thank you all for your help and prayers. I feel a lot better today. This morning I was watching the local news as I usually do if I am home and they have this reverend that gives a morning devotion.

This was today's Daily Devotion...


Problems

A farmer prayed hoping God would solve his problems. God was intrigued so decided to visit the farmer. After God was seated on the porch the farmer began:


&#8220;My wife&#8217;s good, but she nags me. My children, they&#8217;re good, but don&#8217;t always do as they are told. Last year it rained too much. My roof leaks.&#8221; The farmer went on like this.

God, having infinite patience, listened quietly. Finishing, the farmer said, &#8220;Those are my problems. Fix them.&#8221;

God said, &#8220;I can&#8217;t help you.&#8221;


&#8220;WHAT!?, shouted the farmer. &#8220;What do you mean you can&#8217;t help me?! I heard you were a great God, able to help all people. If you can&#8217;t fix my problems what good are you and what good is your power?&#8221;


God said, &#8220;Everybody has problems. In fact everybody has 490 problems. I can&#8217;t help you with those.&#8221;

As the disgusted farmer got up to leave, God said, &#8220;I can help you with the four hundred and ninety-first problem.&#8221;


The farmer sat down. &#8220;What&#8217;s the four hundred and ninety-first problem,&#8221; he asked.


God said, &#8220;The four hundred and ninety-first problem is that you want to have no problems.&#8221;


Everybody has problems. God, Jesus, the prophets&#8212; they aren&#8217;t part of Mr. Fix-It, Inc. Believing in God doesn&#8217;t automatically fix our problems. Having faith in God helps us deal with and face the problems we have.



Let&#8217;s Pray: God, we&#8217;d prefer it if you&#8217;d show up with a cosmic hammer and saw to repair the shambles of our spiritual homes. Since that&#8217;s not going to happen, please bless us with the tools you think we need to face the problems in our lives. Amen.
Today&#8217;s Thought Is: Faith helps us face our troubles.
 
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