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Recent content by snowflake04

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    lost cause?

    hi everyone its been a long time since the last time i wrote on this forum.. anyways i have a big problem. My husband and I have been separated for one and a half years. In total we've spent about 4 months actually apart and not dating etc. but we have lived in different cities for a lot of it...
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    Vegitarianism

    i have chosen not to eat meat because i believe my body is God's temple, and most meats have so much antibiotics pumped into them, not to mention genetic changes, that the meat has become a lot more unhealthy. I genuinely believe in it as a health choice.
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    help!

    i have definately heard that before, i mean that feelings follow actions, it just feels like i have no desire. Unfortunately we do the first example. We eat dinner together, have lots of long talks, and he does romantic things for me often. He didnt used to but in the last 4 months he has...
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    married young?

    i know! when they see youve had enough of their nonsense, its like they change into different people.
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    help!

    ya im trying, im relly hoping its just a first year thing like im just reaaalyy hoping. I think this is a bit more severe then anything ive seen from other people though.
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    married young?

    thanks for that. i definately have realized a need to put him before my family, the problem is he has done some really rude and mean things to my family, so i understand why they have such a hard time with him. I mean it's human nature not to like someone who isnt nice to you right? I try to say...
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    help!

    he says he loves me and he feels like im distancing myself from him, which i think i am too. i think it is just the lack of romantic feelings. we are pleasant to each other but certainly not romantic.
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    married young?

    to answer some of the questions lillygirl3, there are many days i think God did not want me to marry my husband, and yes i feel that i may have missed out on mr.right because i married the first male that entered my life. chosen7stone thanks for that little summary, i have often thought that i...
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    help!

    hi ya i am seeing a councellour right now, she's not Christian though, so she just thinks im crazy for trying to make it work im sure. There are no grounds so i feel i should stay, however that is the only thing keeping me here right now. I know my husband can see that, and im not even trying to...
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    help!

    hey guys this entire week i have wanted a divorce, i just want out of this marriage so bad. The only thing holding me here is the fact that i think i could be giving up my salvation to give up on my marriage. My husband and I have had some really rough times, and have been married less than a...
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    what is wrong with me?

    i say forget about that guy you were living with, and by the way we are to "render unto caesar what is caesar's" and that includes a legal marriage. After one divorce you should just set your standards soo high, porn addictions and things like that dont just go away, neither do anger problems...
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    If Sex took a smaller role...

    i didnt really understand the reply to my last post? your angry?
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    married young?

    interesting.. well thanks again for the replies
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    If Sex took a smaller role...

    i have to say that i dont believe sex is just a physical want for most people..its also an emotional need (for me anyways) so no i dont think it could ever come to the status of being low on the priority list.
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    married young?

    thank you for all your replies, i will be going to see a councellor this week to deal with some of the issues i have been having. I think i have had a bit of a hard time dealing with a lot of these issues partially because everytime i talk to my family members including my mother, they shove the...