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Recent content by Servatude

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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Yes, and I am open for change.
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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Your right, I just got delivered that is probably the reason I cling to those desires. It will take time for God to transform and renew my mind.
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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Exactly! If I were to choose someone that I wasn't attracted to, I'm afraid that can open unwanted doors of temptation in my life, not that I would cheat (im a 25 year old virgin) but it can be a stumbling block. After marrying, I don't want to look back and regret that I didn't marry my...
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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Sorry, I noticed that this forum topic gets more views than the other forum.
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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
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    Christian Dating - Female Body Types

    Hello Family, I am a young man who is actively looking for a godly christian female to court or date. I have been having a dilemma as for whether or not I should go for women that I have been normally attracted to all my life. Just to give you a little background of myself, I was recently set...
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    Harboring Deep Bitterness and Unforgiveness

    Wow, I love this answer. Thank you!
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    Harboring Deep Bitterness and Unforgiveness

    I like your answer, I honestly exaggerated on some parts out of my frustration. Let me rewrite everything. This person actually was not the person that was making fun of me, it was another female, although this person has been known to gossip and make fun of me at my job, most recently my...
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    Harboring Deep Bitterness and Unforgiveness

    I like your answer, I honestly exaggerated on some parts out of my frustration. Let me rewrite everything. This person actually was not the person that was making fun of me, it was another female, although this person has been known to gossip and make fun of me at my job, most recently my...
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    Harboring Deep Bitterness and Unforgiveness

    Lol, I don't think you answered my question correctly, but I greatly appreciate the feedback.
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    Harboring Deep Bitterness and Unforgiveness

    Should I say Hi to a coworker that never initiates saying "Hello"? I have been harboring unforgiveness towards this person in my job, who has been making fun of me for my christian faith and my choice to be a virgin and wait until marriage to lose my virginity. This person is a known gossiper...
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    Struggling with Personal Convictions

    Lately, I have been feeling condemned because my personal convictions. I feel convicted every time I don't read a websites "Terms & Conditions". How does anyone have the time to read a 52 page Itunes agreement (yes it was 52 pages)? Why is it that most people don't share the same convictions...
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    Terms and Conditions..

    Hello Alyssa, I was wondering if you still have this personal conviction or have you been set free from it? Did God give you any revelation? Because I am struggling with the same conviction as well for the past few months and it's really taken a toll on my relationship with Jesus. I feel a...