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Recent content by refredo

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    Anyone have some advice?

    I think you should try taking this problem to the one that has called you as well as to we your fellow believers. Try to read about William Carey or any other guys that the Lord called to missions. Above all pray for your wife that the Lord can soften her heart to go with you to do His work...
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    how does it harm you

    I guess there was alot in God saying that the two, not three nor four would become one flesh. There is more to sex than just physical gratification. It would be wise not to let the water out of its boundary lest you witness another hurricane. Good things taken out of there rightful places always...
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    how can you be friend with a non christian if they swear so much?

    Let them know that you are not comfortable with swearing, if they listen well and good. On the other hand if they don't, ask they Lord to give you the grace to love them. It can be pretty hard to love people with whom we don't agree, but the Lord said we ought to love others not only those that...
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    how can you be friend with a non christian if they swear so much?

    Let them know that you are not comfortable with swearing, if they listen well and good. Om the other hand if they don't, ask they Lord to give you the grace to love them. It can be pretty hard to love people with whom we don't agree, but the Lord said we ought to love others not only those that...
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    Singleness and its struggles

    Not to make it sound easy, but it is the things that we get after really waiting that make us trully happy. If you hang in there the Lord surely won't let your time of devotion to Him be in vain. Besides, there are many that secretly admire you. It could be that these guys that are sleeping...
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    i need some serious advice

    "if you love only those that love you, of what good is that to you...............even the tax payers do the same........." It may be hard to ove those that act harsh towards us, but we are to allow the Lord to live in and through us. Surrender more to the Lord and let Him give you the strength...
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    masturbation

    Well I guess God would have no use in giving us spouses, let alone homosexuality being okay. That may also mean that pornography without lusting, if that can happen is also okay. I guess Paul had something else to say to the Thessalonians on honorig their bodies for they were the temple of God...
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    mind teaser

    Hi every one, been going through a great time lately. Just have found it hard to figure out some things about the Lord, for instance it is hard to chase and catch a hound. Samson possibly under the pwer of the Holy Spirit managed to not only catch, but keep three hundred foxes together, paired...