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Recent content by Randar

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    Feeling so alone and unconnected

    Yes I’m sure I have social anxiety. I just wish I could get over it. I’m really thankful for the website. I can talk to others and be myself.
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    Feeling so alone and unconnected

    Yes. The downside is I’m in a support group for depression. Even there I feel like an outsider and make no connection. I have already been prescribed a few different types of meds.
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    Feeling so alone and unconnected

    Thanks, It is easier to talk online then in person.
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    Feeling so alone and unconnected

    I’m not sure that is the case in my current situation. This makes only second time I have been to this church. Before that I haven’t been in a couple years due to negative experiences. I feel like it’s more me and the fact I’m just weird and introverted.
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    Feeling so alone and unconnected

    I’m at a lost of what to do. I feel like I just can’t make a connection with anyone. I feel so alone. Everywhere I go I feel alone, unloved, and misunderstood. I’m aware I sound Winey and most likely self centered. The feeling is so real to me though, and I don’t know what to do. I pray, don’t...
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    How to overcome being selfish

    How do you meet in the middle when it come to selflessness. I feel like people will drain me dry to the point of depression, and take advantage of my kindness. I will then try to avoid doing anything to help anyone at that point because I feel I’ve been took advantage of. Which leaves me feeling...
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    newbie here

    Thank you!
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    Should I attend Church

    1. I can’t read minds, but I seem to have trouble making a connection with anyone. Shortly after I hear gossip. I assume for some reason I’m not liked or I’m doing something to make people weary of me. 2. People don’t. My negative thoughts do. Feeling not good enough. 4. I know that and...
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    Should I attend Church

    I feel like I need to clarify a bit. First this is how I feel. The reason I feel this way is because I’m usually met with resistance when I try make a connection. It just feels this way. I’m typically met by people that very obviously have no interest in communication or connection. I have...
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    Should I attend Church

    This is my first post here, and I’m fairly nervous about it. I really need some advice though. In my teens and 20s my life consisted of partying and friends. (I’m 35 now)When I found God all of that stopped and I started to have this beautiful relationship with him. I started attending church...
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    newbie here

    Thought I would try this forum out. Really just starting to get life back on track spiritually. I’m a an introvert with social anxiety, and thought maybe a good start since I’m not attending church, and have had troubles with church in the past. Nervous and hoping for best.