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Recent content by Monaleezza

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    Single Newbie FTB

    Hi Paldasan Well I've been a CF member for years. I joined 2007 apparently. I think I joined while I was looking for research into Christian forums because at the time I was a moderator for a very small local forum, that has since been taken down because we allowed people to "speak their...
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    We're breaking up!

    Thanks everyone for your support. You've been really helpful and it's been good to have someone to tell. It's funny that as a Christian you still don't want to slander someone and tell all his friends and family what they've done, even if it is true and it did hurt. At least I can be open and...
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    Single Newbie

    Thanks everyone for your support. I've made it this far, I'll get through this.
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    Single Newbie

    Hi Vicky Good advice, thanks. I have thrown myself into my work, meeting up with friends etc. I'm single/unmarried because I have waited for the right one. I'm not saying I'd have wanted to marry all of the guys I've dated, but I guess maybe selfishly I'm questioning why didn't any one of...
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    Single Newbie

    I still call myself a Christian, but my faith has so been tested and I'm totally losing the fight. I question how God has allowed someone like me who wanted to be married at 21, to get to 34 without meeting ONE person who was willing to marry me (who I wanted to marry also) Yes, l've had ex...
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    Single Newbie FTB

    I'm nearly 34, single, obviously, British, living in London England and anything else you wanna know you're gonna have to ask.:clap:
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    Single Newbie

    And not enjoying it. I've recently come out of an almost 6 year relationship that didn't lead to marriage. And I'm starting all over again. I'm struggling with everything. I'm petrified about being 34 and single. I'm dealing the possibility that if I don't meet someone I can love soon that I...
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    We're breaking up!

    So after almost 6 years of dating I found out he was cheating on me. Here was I saving myself for marriage and he was sleeping with a girl at his "Christian College" and an ex just for good measure. So it's over, I'm single and I've no need to frequent "Courting Couples" anymore because I'm...
  9. Monaleezza

    Need some real help.

    Well said StillGrowing:thumbsup: My suggestion is if you don't have intimate feelings for this girl then take some time apart and see how you feel then. Not everything can be prayed away because we do have an element of choice in our lives. And no matter how much you pray if you're chosing...
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    Dealing with our past?

    TIME and CHOICE can heal. All you have to do is give yourself time. Don't marry until the trust is there. When trust is there you trust without thinking. When trust is broken you distrust and are suspicious about everything. And then when he behaves in a trustworthy manner after a long period...
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    My girl's (and my) terrible past - need advice

    Wow I applaud her. Firstly for making herself vulnerable and confessing quite intimate (unnecessary) detail about her past. I mean after how many dates she done the deed, surely that's on a need to know basis and who needs to know that?? But secondly, because she's said that was who she was...
  12. Monaleezza

    Help on staying pure

    Ok, so I typed my solution on here clicked send and got timed out, so... here we go again.:) Lets get PRACTICAL. Firstly, Throw away whatever you own that hinders you; porn, lingerie catalogues, block your computer permanently from accessing sex sites, avoid clubs and places with scantily...
  13. Monaleezza

    We're breaking up!

    I have asked and he does answer. The WHY is: That he doesn't feel the need. It isn't urgent. It's something he plans for us in the future but not any time soon. It's not an immediate priority. He's contented with our relationship as it is, with us dating. I've concluded those responses to mean...
  14. Monaleezza

    To Old to Have a Baby?

    If you can still conceive go for it!
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    boyfriend doesn't see his kids, should i let him go?

    I think it's his decision to make and not yours. If you think you'd respect him more if his was with his kids then you'd still have to allow him to make the decision and if it's so important to you then you judge him based on his decisions. What are your feelings about a man that chooses a...
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