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Hi Paldasan Well I've been a CF member for years. I joined 2007 apparently. I think I joined while I was looking for research into Christian forums because at the time I was a moderator for a very small local forum, that has since been taken down because we allowed people to "speak their...

Thanks everyone for your support. You've been really helpful and it's been good to have someone to tell. It's funny that as a Christian you still don't want to slander someone and tell all his friends and family what they've done, even if it is true and it did hurt. At least I can be open and...

Thanks everyone for your support. I've made it this far, I'll get through this.

Hi Vicky Good advice, thanks. I have thrown myself into my work, meeting up with friends etc. I'm single/unmarried because I have waited for the right one. I'm not saying I'd have wanted to marry all of the guys I've dated, but I guess maybe selfishly I'm questioning why didn't any one of...

I still call myself a Christian, but my faith has so been tested and I'm totally losing the fight. I question how God has allowed someone like me who wanted to be married at 21, to get to 34 without meeting ONE person who was willing to marry me (who I wanted to marry also) Yes, l've had ex...

I'm nearly 34, single, obviously, British, living in London England and anything else you wanna know you're gonna have to ask.:clap:

And not enjoying it. I've recently come out of an almost 6 year relationship that didn't lead to marriage. And I'm starting all over again. I'm struggling with everything. I'm petrified about being 34 and single. I'm dealing the possibility that if I don't meet someone I can love soon that I...

So after almost 6 years of dating I found out he was cheating on me. Here was I saving myself for marriage and he was sleeping with a girl at his "Christian College" and an ex just for good measure. So it's over, I'm single and I've no need to frequent "Courting Couples" anymore because I'm...

Well said StillGrowing:thumbsup: My suggestion is if you don't have intimate feelings for this girl then take some time apart and see how you feel then. Not everything can be prayed away because we do have an element of choice in our lives. And no matter how much you pray if you're chosing...

TIME and CHOICE can heal. All you have to do is give yourself time. Don't marry until the trust is there. When trust is there you trust without thinking. When trust is broken you distrust and are suspicious about everything. And then when he behaves in a trustworthy manner after a long period...

Wow I applaud her. Firstly for making herself vulnerable and confessing quite intimate (unnecessary) detail about her past. I mean after how many dates she done the deed, surely that's on a need to know basis and who needs to know that?? But secondly, because she's said that was who she was...

Ok, so I typed my solution on here clicked send and got timed out, so... here we go again.:) Lets get PRACTICAL. Firstly, Throw away whatever you own that hinders you; inappropriate content, lingerie catalogues, block your computer permanently from accessing sex sites, avoid clubs and places with scantily...

I have asked and he does answer. The WHY is: That he doesn't feel the need. It isn't urgent. It's something he plans for us in the future but not any time soon. It's not an immediate priority. He's contented with our relationship as it is, with us dating. I've concluded those responses to mean...

If you can still conceive go for it!

I think it's his decision to make and not yours. If you think you'd respect him more if his was with his kids then you'd still have to allow him to make the decision and if it's so important to you then you judge him based on his decisions. What are your feelings about a man that chooses a...

So, you all have established that my relationship should be moving forward. Now what? Do I put a time/date restriction on how long he "thinks" for? Do I break it off now and tell him to contact me if he wants to get married? Do I stay here, painfully drowning in a drawn out break up? What do...

And consider this: Taking her out with you.

All of this talk about pre-marital sex still doesn't answer the question. The bottom line is,if RawKitty decides that she wants to have sex before marriage and whether or not she considers that to be a sin or not, in the eyes of the law and the church she is still unmarried. And I think the...

Ambiguous Postponement is exactly what it is. I like your solution to your problem. It would work just fine for us and we're so in love and compatible and right for one another that he won't regret it. But if in the next few weeks he doesn't bite the bullet there is no going back. I just wish...

It means, he loves me, he doesn't want to break up he wants us to get married but not necessarily in the next 18 months which after 5 years is what I expect. As for why he resists, I think he's scared. He comes from a family where his parents are divorced and I think he's scared the same will...