Recent content by mlukas

Listen, my wife can be pretty absent minded sometimes. I admit, sometimes it's frustrating but I know she doesn't do it on purpose. As a husband, I just account for it and have made myself the keeper of the keys and all things important. I don't take it personally, I just know that's the way...

If your husband chooses a bloody cat over his wife he has some major issues. I love my dog but I'd loose her in a second if she was bothering my wife that much. Your husband needs to grow up, man up and get some counseling. Just an opinion...

What's the point of being married if there isn't some sort of happiness attached to it? I agree, in a Christian marriage that is one of the goals. To edify and encourage each other. However... I think the point is a bit ridiculous. If all I wanted was to be more holy I can't, in the final...

I think this whole marriage amendment is nothing but a desperate election year (Senate and House) stunt to garner some votes for a floundering political party. The whole fiasco is just pathetic! Think about it. Was there any large clamour for the Amendment in the last several months? The...

If both husband an wife WANT to perform oral sex (or any other type of sex on each other) how is that not concern for the other's need? Also, I don't think it should be left to any individual theologian to determine what is a condoned sex act and what isn't, doesn't that strike you as a bit...

PS...some pagan religions turned eating meat into a demonic practice (sacrificing to idols...) Are we to stop eating meat because of the "history" of meat eating? Also, regarding this, Paul said that if it didn't bother you as a Christian to eat meat sacrificed to idols, then it was your...

When is the last time anyone in the civilized world equated oral sex with an egyptian god/goddess? I agree with Redguard on this one... Are we to do extensive research into the history of sexual acts before performing them with our wives (or husbands)? If that was the case, I think we'd all...

I think if you date someone long enough ( a year and a half or longer) their "true colors" will invariably show. I'm not a big fan of short engagements and whirlwind romances, it's far too easy for one or both people to maintain an all is well facade for a short time. My wife and I were really...

I do that too:) And I agree, the big picture isn't really the sex, it's everything in the relationship. Believe me, I'm not some sex crazed, one track mind sociopath. My fondest memory, so far, of my wife and I today is playing "keep away" with our dog and her chewed up tennis ball. That...

I agree that we live in a flawed world and as Christians we are also screwed up. That's just a given... I guess my point in starting the thread is this: Not to be voyeuristic but to see if there was any hope out there. People do come to these forums for help, which is awesome. I just think...

My wife is very fun and playful:) We have a lot of great laughs together. I love being around her and around the fun we have everyday:D

I'm not obsessed with it but you have to admit, there's a fair amount of forums about it. Like I said in my first post, it just makes me wonder what is wrong in Christiandom. Especially given the fact that so many preachers, Christians, etc, brag about how great married life and sex is suppose...

YES! Good advice! P-I think there is always a fine balance in a marriage, on both sides, of being loving and being a doormat. In the end, if you cave to her every time, she will end up resenting you in the long run. But if you tell her how you feel and show some backbone, things will, probably...

Why do you feel guilty? You're married, yes? So what's the problem? I'm pretty sure God would approve of you not only having passionate sex with your wife but also thinking about passionate sex with your wife! Biblical reference: Song of Solomon, Chapter 4. The last several verses-that's no...

With all due respect, I can't really imagine any red blooded male NOT thinking sex was a priority in a marriage! Besides, when are love and sex exclusive of each other? I think that is just a really off base assumption. It's not all about the ending [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]! It's about the fun and intimacy...