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Recent content by LookingTotheFuture

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    Sentimental Guys, Step Up

    I'm a fairly sentimental guy. I have strong attachments to memories and things that were around when I was a little boy, and what they meant to me at that time in my life. Knowing how important communication is in life, I like to find ways of expressing my emotions through words and actions...
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    Why do 'you' seek relationships?

    Hi, I had an interesting question for everyone which may get you questioning your own intentions. In the First Epistle of Paul to the Corinthians, Chapter 7 it is written: 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 32 But I would have you...
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    too nice to date..

    Don't worry I didn't think you were raising the comment at me. I thought you made a good point and that I should expand around my first answer to reflect on what you said. And I'm glad I did, what I wrote reads a lot better now. ;)
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    too nice to date..

    Someguyyouknow I agree with what you're saying. It's impossible to be all things to everybody. I based my last post on comments I have heard others make in the past, that they see people who are very warm and nice as being one-dimensional and uninteresting. I say it is their own loss for not...
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    If A Man Wants You

    That sounds right. You end up making the judgment call on how much you wish to disclose unless specifically asked for more. And if you feel uncomfortable, you can always refuse to answer. (giving a reason if necessary)
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    too nice to date..

    I certainly don't think your niceness is the problem. I think people are having troubles seeing the full range of who you are and your personality. Venture out a little from the ordinary and find new ways to express yourself, being true to yourself and never compromising your beliefs. I have...
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    If A Man Wants You

    That line bothers me as well. I guess maybe for simplicity's sake it was kept short and simple. I didn't understand at first what it meant either. Thanks Krysstian for making it clearer. To me now I see this wisdom as using discretion when it comes to the little things that will service no...
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    Dating Horror Stories

    I've been in the situation twice with girls where the timing was off. It was too close to their breakups with their first real bfs. For one of them it had been only a month, and the other it had been 4 months. They left their ex's for good reasons, and there was no future there, but in both...
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    Arguing/Fighting on the Internet

    It takes great time and effort to create, and only seconds to destroy. I always try to remember this wisdom before acting, if I feel attacked. In the end, an argument is almost never over anything important anyways.
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    Cosmetic surgery

    There's a big gray area as to what people deem as acceptable, and what isn't. Like others have said, the answer is situational. I think you're pretty safe on a issue if 65% of the population agrees with you on it. But of course there are time's when they get it wrong.
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    the TV show House...

    David Morse (the cop), really gets under my skin for some reason playing this role. He seems so calm cool and collected, but at the same time you can feel the arrogance spewing from him. It's almost strange how he seems to always be in the same mood in every scene. I think that's what's getting...
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    Make or Break

    I admire caring compassionate people who have faced adversity in their lives and have risen about it. Some people still have some social issues, but as long as they try to be strong, move forward, and progress, I feel akin with them. For those who feel defeated, or seem lost, I can share advice...
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    My turn

    I've watched a few of those shows where they give people surgery to improve their appearances. What I learned from it was that dental surgery as well as laser surgery to clean up a person's complexion work very well at making a person look more attractive. What I really didn't like about the...
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    Hugging

    I feel a little hug-deprived as well.
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    Myspace

    My CF page is still rather plain, I guess I should work on it. Still learning my way around these forums. I don't mind if people PM me, or add me to msn, so feel free ; ) ( I'm slowly working on getting my CF character to resemble me better)
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