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Recent content by LonelyAdams

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    Secrets You'll Take to Your Grave

    Honestly? Just how lonely and broken I feel. I mean I have friends, a life, and generally am doing ok. But I crave companionship and deep friendship, not to mention a romantic relationship and it just doesn't seem like it will ever actually happen. So I go about my life and I don't really hide...
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    Do looks matter to you?

    Looks matter, and anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar. However, there is a 'healthy" amount of looks mattering and an "unhealthy" amount. Some people put TO MUCH emphasis on certain physical attribute, washboard abbs, specific heights, certain "body" proportions, and only being attracted...
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    What do you do when your extremely lonely?

    Ive been strugging with a lot of lonliness lately. I'm tired, im going out, I'm being social, I have friends, but I don't feel like I have anyone that really knows me.
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    Singles room

    For a long time, I just sucked talking to women. Well I sucked at making friends in general. Now I'm better at that but I'm a little more picky about who I would want to be with. Truth is I don't "click" with many people on a deep enough level to want to pursue anything. Which sucks cause I...
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    Single lady a little too into herself?

    I'm not a fan of huge social media persona's. its a huge red flag for me. Its fine to post stuff online and have a presence on that stuff (and for a lot of types of work you really need to be if we are being honest). But that doesn't sound like a healthy level.
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    I'm a broken person, a broken christian, and I would give anything for a friend who understands

    If I could just move I would, I don't want to go into the reasons why but for quite a few reasons thats just not something I can do anytime soon.
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    I'm a broken person, a broken christian, and I would give anything for a friend who understands

    Its not that easy, a lot of my struggles have to do with sex. You just can't open up about that stuff to people, especally when you have thoughts of giving up and just not trying to do the "Right" thing anymore. Of course those thoughts are wrong but if you open up about struggling, much less...
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    I'm a broken person, a broken christian, and I would give anything for a friend who understands

    I'm really broken. I'm tired , and so I'm just... going to throw it all out there to get it of my chest. I'm broken. I'm lonely as hell. I do a good job hiding it 99% of the time. I'm sociable, I go out, I have friends I spend time with. I'm funny, know how to introduce myself to new people...
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    Overly Tatted Christians

    Your judging someone on something that is, quite literally, skin deep.
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    Yo.

    Congrats, Im hitting the job market really hard myself so I know how frustrating it can be. Glad you found some!
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    Do nice/good guys finish last?

    i think you shouldn't change who you are. We need to be kind to everyone, and gentle, while also having a backbone. Good guys don't finish last, but "nice guys" do
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    Let...

    Lets become friends
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    To the men, how important is your dating partner's career/job?

    Its important not to judge based on outward things. That said I know for me I want someone who can pull their own weight or at least has a reason not to be. Someone who isn't working because they are lazy is different than a person who isn't working becuase they have a health condition...
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    Starting over and feeling lost.

    I can really relate to your post, Its hard when your with someone then you stop and realize that they were really your main emotionally support. Ive struggled socially in similar ways though its a little better now. If you ever want a friend (and I do just mean friend cause I'm not doing another...