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Recent content by jay_swift

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    Facebook

    The percentage of people holding alcoholic beverages in their photos on facebook is astounding.
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    Christians Marry Young

    I guess I should have checked this sooner... Anyway, I think alot of people marry too young. There's definately people who are right for eachother and don't need to wait. However, I think its silly to marry to keep from being promiscuous. If my wife ever told me that was a reason she married...
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    Christians Marry Young

    I might be wrong here, but it seems to me like every Christian friend of mine is engaged or recently married. I'm about to graduate college and I feel a bit like every woman that meets my standards has already found a guy to marry. For example, I asked a friend out 2 years ago and she...
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    No more excuses...

    There's a support group for people that have been rejected. Its called "Everyone".
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    Gentlemen: What looks good on the ladies?

    I bet you're cuter than you think you are.
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    Ladies: What looks good on a man?

    is this thread still going? wow.
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    Gentlemen: What looks good on the ladies?

    you obviously havent heard the things I say to snowhite :P
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    Ladies: What looks good on a man?

    I smell a smarty pants
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    New Feature: Members Location Map!

    yup you're right mr. web guru.
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    New Feature: Members Location Map!

    the map page automatically logs you in when you go to that page when you are a guest. there must be a delinquent cookie on that page or something...
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    Dating Advice for Guys

    tell it to me and I'll say it
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    Vending Machines are from the devil, and other diet tips

    "How to sell books to Dummies for Dummies"
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    Dating Advice for Guys

    "Good advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example." - Francois de La Rouchefoucauld
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    Dating Advice for Guys

    And the only way to learn the rules is to practice.
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    How long to allow for a rebound?

    The problem with making a move fast is all of her friends are advising her not to date again for a while. That makes it harder.