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Recent content by guava

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    Adultery

    Fathering her was big very big problem. I didn't find out until it was too late or maybe it was wishful thinking on my part that made me turn a blind eye . . During those occasions when her father came to pcik her from college she would have him sit in the car waiting forever .Its raining ...
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    Adultery

    Peace to all of you You ask me to point to scripture. . I can tell you all that I know about the light but I can not tell you what you see .in order for that to happen one of us has to change. One of us has to ask Jesus for advice. One of us has to drop the idea that we will live for ever .we...
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    Adultery

    oh yes Canada.. Great people. Country blessed with rich natural resources. Nice to meet someone from there and hello to you too.. The hot weather is okay with me. No complaints. I don't care to use fans or air coolers. My family though insist on them. The same for me with the cold . when i...
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    Adultery

    Something of the north east of Africa. Africa is third world. Rule of law is only within the cities. Outside the cities it's hard to apply the rules. Takes considerable wealth to do that --- to pay for police cars and to maintain them and for gas and money to pay wages. Add to that war breaks...
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    Adultery

    Okay lets just go along with your husband for second. The one scenario i think that emerges that’s worrisome is that god disciplined you by giving you a husband with a damaged brain. In this scenario you are an adulteress because you divorced your husband and married another guy who is...
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    Adultery

    i think it need be said that Jesus also said to turn a bad thing into a good thing .for example if you earn money wrongly then you might want to use that money to do something good . when the world acts to undermine your life and the life of your family you should fight back by making more life...
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    God just let the war break out and go on?

    yes of course they are claims by men. Thomas Jefferson and the architects of the constitution were human. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. . The claim is that the State can not give you your rights nor can it take them away. In order for that to occur god has to come down in person and...
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    God just let the war break out and go on?

    Photon, You hurt my feelings but I forgive you. English he says! Not long ago they insisted that treatise be written in French. What defines us as creation of god, what sets us apart from the behemas , what makes us distinct from all other things is our freedom . The laws of freedom...
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    Adultery

    You are right. I am very sorry. I apologize if things i have said gave you the impression I was being sarcastic. Here where I am at when a couple are having challenges what we do is encourage the husband to hang out with older married men and the wife with older married women .let men...
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    God just let the war break out and go on?

    Consider the god given rights to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. These rights are inalienable. Nobody can take them away from you. You can be denied these rights by the state or tyranny but they can't be taken away from you . these rights are given by god and only god can take them...
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    Adultery

    Maybe you need to pretend to be jealous now and then, so your husband thinks its also an issue for men. You know , fill in for the bible .if he thinks its not doing enough to distinguish men in that area. Oh, don't bring up Hosea the prophet whatever you do
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    God just let the war break out and go on?

    God is on god side. To think of it any other way is idolatry. These angels were not idolatrous which thing raises question about your question. Breaking it up into let it happen versus not let it happen might just not be the way to look at it .. . you think it is because you are unconsciously...
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    The 'evil' in the Old Testament

    Wise words by your grandfather. by the same token do his words apply to different personalities as well ? lets start with Cain and Able. jesus talked to city people, a collection of peasants, craftsmen, fisher men, clergy, soldiers , ect . Cain was peasant it would seem. Able was a cattle...
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    The 'evil' in the Old Testament

    hey duckbill, where are you ? come back. i really enjoy talking to you. i want to tell you about this story . a cow was running trying to escape the people who wanted to slaughter it . it ran into the house of this holy man and she begged him to hide her .he told her to hide in his water jug ...
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    Pre-marital sex?

    Render to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to god what belongs to god which implies not to render to Caesar what doesn't belong to Caesar . The reason Rome persecuted Christians was because Christians refused to incorporate which would have made the church come under the authority of Caesar...