Recent content by Fivesenses

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    Christian attitude in different seasons

    I see thank you for your response! The issue has been sorted out gradually so thank you very much :)
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    Mum overstepping boundaries before wedding

    I think she is concerned because she feels like I'm secretive about it all since I try to avoid telling her too much detail or about doctor appointments because I know she will want too much say and information which I'm uncomfortable sharing. I guess since I'm the eldest and first to get...
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    Mum overstepping boundaries before wedding

    Is it considered instrusive or overstepping boundaries when parents try to control and dictate what sort of birth control if any to use in their children's upcoming marriage? I've told my mum several times that I would make a decision along with my husband to be and it's something I would...
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    Stressed out about flowers

    I'm quite stressed out about my wedding preparation and it's taking a slight toll on my emotional and physical health (I've had less than 3 months to plan the wedding but we are discarding a lot of unnecessary details + simplifying things). My fiance and I have decided on a budget (8k) and we...
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    Making decision without consulting the other half

    Hi everyone, I'm soon to be married in a few weeks time. Of course I'm excited/happy but at the same time, it is getting quite stressful and busy because we had a short engagement (so wedding planning and renovating the house at the same time). My question is whether this is worth something to...
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    'You don't get my perspective'

    Yes women do want to feel that you are attracted to them (sexually included) when you two are in a serious relationship. For a person with physical touch as main love language, refusal to show physical affection can be hurtful even when it seems logically sound and morally righteous (because it...
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    Difficult Christians

    I'm conflicted as to what to feel or approach this situation. What are your thoughts on interacting and building meaningful relationships with fellow Christians who come across as self righteous and narrow minded? (Eg denying most entertainment and amusement - making a rule for others that this...
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    To what extent 10 commandments?

    I don't think he has much choice in that regard since there is a list of novels and books he can teach to the students he is in charge of (chosen by the department of education and government). These books would be considered as the lesser evil ones compared to the others on the list.
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    To what extent 10 commandments?

    So I'm guessing that it is rightly so that he censors these words from books by erasing them or covering them up? It's just I thought it was really weird but wasn't sure why I felt uncomfortable with this idea.
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    To what extent 10 commandments?

    The words I'm talking about belong to novels (not books he wrote himself) e.g. passages that allude to sexual encounters, characters using God's name as forms of profanity and insults insults e.g. [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]
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    To what extent 10 commandments?

    We are studying the 10 commandments at the moment and I've just been thinking about this question: One of the commandments is to NOT use God's not in vain (which by the way, includes "my goodness, oh my gosh?"). A pastor mentioned that God is not just concerned with our outward behaviour and...
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    Is it a sin to pursue higher education?

    Or is it a sin for Jewish women to be sent off to uni? I don't know...does anyone here know of any Jewish person who can testify whether this is true or not?
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    Is it a sin to pursue higher education?

    Someone told me that for the Jewish people, attending higher education (university), is considered to be a sin - encouraging Christian young people to likewise consider their choices carefully and to be on guard against the propaganda and corruption of the world. Can someone enlighten me on why...
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    What living arrangement would you choose after marriage

    Wow their journey is quite interesting and insightful. It must have been a big shock and adjustment for him...it takes a lot of humility on his part to actually understand that he was wrong and be willing to change because a lot of people wouldn't want to change even if they are told they are...
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    What living arrangement would you choose after marriage

    Did she tell him that she didn't like the idea instead of bottling it inside? I wonder how he found out that he was wrong and whether it came across his mind that renting their house out would cause her to resent him. Also, living in one's parent's house...could it possibly lead to problems...