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Nebraska governor signs order narrowly defining sex as that assigned at birth

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I feel confident that women wont need any special technology to screen what bulges don't belong in a public shower room with them.
Rest rooms. We're talking rest rooms. Try to concentrate on one problem at a time. Restrooms have cubicles. If someone with a beard comes in (you apparently allow them) then you'll need the new BulgeOmatic (pat pending).
 
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About 20 years ago, my dad and I accidentally used a lady's restroom at a movie theatre because the door was wide open and we thought it was unisex. Thankfully, no women were in there doing their business. It happens.

(I have no clue why on earth I remember that).

Lol ok...that makes sense at least. I couldn't imagine a scenario where one uses the wrong restroom unless you were in a foreign nation or something. Restrooms tend to be next to one another and even if the sign fell off one....the other is right there alongside it.
Kinda like those diagrams being passed around in Germany in the 1930s, showing how to identify a person of Jewish ancestry.
Kinda...except these would be based on real biological differences (not imaginary ones) and no one is rounding up men for execution.

It may seem like overkill but there's a large percentage of the population that doesn't know what a man or woman is despite being adults with supposedly functioning brains.
 
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At my old workplace (yes, in Nebraska) all the restrooms were unisex. I don't think it ever created a problem, but you locked the door once you went in/just one person at a time.
 
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A more recent 2019 study shows that over 25% of transgender teens are sexually assaulted every year. That percentage rises to 36% for those whose schools deny them access to their preferred restrooms (this compares to 15% of cisgender girls and 4% of cisgender boys who report being sexually assaulted).
The CDC disagrees.

Sexual violence is common. Over half of women and almost 1 in 3 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact during their lifetimes.

Sexual violence starts early. More than 4 in 5 female rape survivors reported that they were first raped before age 25 and almost half were first raped as a minor (i.e., before age 18).

 
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Kinda like those diagrams being passed around in Germany in the 1930s, showing how to identify a person of Jewish ancestry.
Maybe you'll have to wear a badge in Nebraska.

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Rest rooms. We're talking rest rooms. Try to concentrate on one problem at a time.
You were talking restrooms. I'm looking at the big picture. If you would like to take this one step at a time; lets start with a biggie. How about women's showers in State Parks?
 
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Maybe you'll have to wear a badge in Nebraska.

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There's been a bunch of protests from LGBT groups at the state capitol over this.

(Just realized you're not from the US...it's funny you heard of Nebraska since no one ever seems to notice us :p )
 
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The CDC disagrees.

Sexual violence is common. Over half of women and almost 1 in 3 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact during their lifetimes.

Sexual violence starts early. More than 4 in 5 female rape survivors reported that they were first raped before age 25 and almost half were first raped as a minor (i.e., before age 18).

The numbers I cited were for the past year, not lifetime.
 
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Apparently you're still missing the point. There is a common, yet secluded, area in many of these restrooms; where it would be inappropriate for a pervert to loiter. and wait for his pick of the lone women to walk in.
So if you're concerned about perverts pretending to be women and loitering in rest rooms, tell me again how all this would stop that?
 
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There's been a bunch of protests from LGBT groups at the state capitol over this.

(Just realized you're not from the US...it's funny you heard of Nebraska since no one ever seems to notice us :p )
Closest I ever got was Cheyenne.
 
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A transgender inmate has been transferred out of the only women’s prison in New Jersey after impregnating two female inmates.


A transgender Rikers inmate raped a female prisoner while in the women’s section of the jail and has been sentenced to seven years, officials said Monday.


These are what I would call the "likely ramifications" of allowing biological men into spaces designed for biological women only.
 
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So if you're concerned about perverts pretending to be women and loitering in rest rooms, tell me again how all this would stop that?
First you would need to explain to me how any law would prevent criminals from breaking the law.
 
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First you would need to explain to me how any law would prevent criminals from breaking the law.
That was your claim, not his:
I like the law. It helps to prevent boys from raping girls, in the girl's bathroom at school, because they can lay there in wait for them, because they say to themselves, "oh, I'm special."
 
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Why didn't you pick a snapshot that didn't support your argument?
Now why would I do that?

And if you meant to say "Why did you pick a snapshot that didn't support your argument," you're going to need to show that it doesn't. Because, as far as I'm concerned, it does support my argument.
 
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That was your claim, not his:
If there is a law that prevents boys from hanging out in the girls bathroom; I can readily see how those who obey that law would be liss likely to be tempted to commit a more serious crime.
 
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Your concern for women is commendable. Do you have similar concerns for transgender people? Because 1% of over 27,700 transgender individuals surveyed in 2015 (that would be 277 people) reported being sexually assaulted in public restrooms just in that year. A further 1% were physically assaulted, and 12% were verbally harassed.

Do you have some actual crime statistics? Something from the DOJ and not a self-reported survey?

It's unfortunate, but trans activists tend to lie about the dangers they face for being trans. They lied about being murdered at abnormally high rates. They lied about "trans youth" suicide rates. It's unfortunate this particular group seems willing to openly lie about the "dangers" they face for the way they choose to live their lives....but a self reported survey of trans people at this point simply isn't worth much.




A more recent 2019 study shows that over 25% of transgender teens are sexually assaulted every year. That percentage rises to 36% for those whose schools deny them access to their preferred restrooms (this compares to 15% of cisgender girls and 4% of cisgender boys who report being sexually assaulted). To be fair, not all of these assaults necessarily occurred in bathrooms.

To be fair, this is another self-reported survey. If you have any actual crime data on the topic....I'm more than willing to consider it.


It seems to me that transgender people are more at risk for being assaulted when using the bathroom that corresponds to the gender they were assigned at birth than women are at risk from being assaulted by transgender people using the women's bathroom.

Well there's a difference between the consequences of one's actions and the consequences of someone else's actions.

If some guy dresses up like a girl and gets assaulted in the men's room....that's definitely a crime and he should report this to the police. That way, we can find out how many of these crimes are actually happening. He doesn't get to put all women in danger because he wants to wear women's clothes and lipstick.

These self surveys are notoriously bad at creating accurate data. I'm reminded of the "campus rape crisis" of a decade ago where college girls were claiming to be raped more often than female refugees fleeing war zones.
 
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