My fiancé doesn’t believe in God

[YanaMarkova]

I recently got engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in God. It concerns me and hurts me a lot that he does things like listening to bad music and play games with naked women. What do I do?

 

[PloverWing]

Why are you marrying him? You've only listed things about him that you dislike. Are there also things about him that are wonderful, that lead you to think that your partnership would make both of you better and happier people?

 

[sandman]

I won’t tell you what to do … but this is what the Word says….and there are some very good reasons why God states this.

2Co 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

If you go into a relationship thinking he will change or you will change him …that is a fantasy.

 

[Unqualified]

You may spend a lot of time being hurt. If you put your foot down because you are right, he might divorce you.

 

[Blade]

I recently got engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in God. It concerns me and hurts me a lot that he does things like listening to bad music and play games with naked women. What do I do?

Hi.. at this point we will get thoughts .. we can change them. Its a not a truth. Me? I would say to them you love them blah blah blah but what you do.. name it.. really bothers you.. the bad music.. the games naked women. Speak your heart. If you do nothing.. could end up worse

 

[public hermit]

I recently got engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in God. It concerns me and hurts me a lot that he does things like listening to bad music and play games with naked women. What do I do?

Yana, it is good to see you on here, and I hope you're doing well. From what you've said in the past, you and your child have been through a lot. Obviously, I have no idea about this guy, but I hope he's good to y'all. Marrying someone who does not believe as you do can create significant problems, but it depends on the people, too. Each situation is unique. Whatever the case, I hope this guy is a good one. If not, don't settle for less. You deserve someone who treats y'all well.

 

[eleos1954]

I recently got engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in God. It concerns me and hurts me a lot that he does things like listening to bad music and play games with naked women. What do I do?

Can two walk together if they disagree?

If the two of you are not on the same page spiritually .... you will continue being hurt .... sorry ... but that is the truth.

If no change is in site ..... walk away.

 

[Michie]

I recently got engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in God. It concerns me and hurts me a lot that he does things like listening to bad music and play games with naked women. What do I do?

You don’t marry him. You’ll regret it the rest of your life.

 

[anetazo]

No one is judging you or criticizing anyone. How can Jesus use Christian who lost focus on producing fruit for God. John chapter 15 : 2. Every branch in Me that bears not fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He purges it, that it may bring forth more fruit.
Jesus gave Christian people different gifts and abilities. God expects that Christian to study the bible and plant seeds. Lot of lost souls are headed for hell. What use does Jesus have for Christians who are walking in ways of world, and have dead works.
When Jesus returns 7th trump, thier wont be any rewards, linen to wear. Some Christian people will be naked during millennium. If they repent, Jesus will let them in. But no rewards, no fine linen, and no position in God's kingdom. Get the picture.
My advice. Get rid of the heathen. And get back to studying the bible and serving Jesus.

 

[tturt]

If you have children,, we're to train our children in the way they should go Pro 22:6 So there will definitely be mixed messages to them.

If you go to church to worship, Ihere will be conflicts of interest.

If you believe in tithing/giving, they just might not want the money spent in that way.

You cant even talk with them about how a specific scripture is speaking to you, share how a pastor's message impacted you, etc. Time spent reading and studying Scripture when they want to be doing something with them or numerous things instead. Some spouses mock their believing partners.

So family values, time management, communication, and finances to name a few areas that would be influenced.

 

[DragonFox91]

Dump him NOW. Sorry it'll be hard, but it's the right choice. Some right things are hard. You won't regret it. You've been living lies, both of you, I know you both have been, & someday you'll have to butt heads over it. Best to just end it now.

I won’t tell you what to do … but this is what the Word says….and there are some very good reasons why God states this.

2Co 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

If you go into a relationship thinking he will change or you will change him …that is a fantasy.

Why be scared to tell her what to do? Whatever choice she makes, she'll hear it from someone. Why discourage her from taking our advice to heart?

If you have children,, we're to train our children in the way they should go Pro 22:6 So there will definitely be mixed messages to them.

If you go to church to worship, Ihere will be conflicts of interest.

If you believe in tithing/giving, they just might not want the money spent in that way.

You cant even talk with them about how a specific scripture is speaking to you, share how a pastor's message impacted you, etc. Time spent reading and studying Scripture when they want to be doing something with them or numerous things instead. Some spouses mock their believing partners.

So family values, time management, communication, and finances to name a few areas that would be influenced.

EVERYTHING will be. OP, If you don't see how your whole life will be impacted, you seriously needs to reconsider your own stance on your faith & how important it really is to you & where you stand before God.

 

[turkle]

I read a bit of your backstory, and it appears that you are trading one disastrous relationship for another. You have a young child that needs a good father, not one who is an unbelieving porn gamer.

I understand that it must be scary to be young, alone and a parent. But now that you are a mother, your first priority is to create a safe living environment for your child. Even if it's lonely for you.

I strongly advise against this engagement. It will not be much different from the last one. You need to date only believers who honor God and women, which he obviously does not. It's important to be selective and not jump on the first man available. Know your values and don't settle for anyone who doesn't live up to them. Including this guy.