I believe the control doctrine is the product of lazy thinking and lazy faith. It is just easier to blame God for everything in a misguided attempt to rationalize a warped kind of Glory for Him. Instead of having faith in a good God and believing God will save us and deliver us from every evil. it is just easier to ascribe those evils to Him and sit back and "faithfully" endure the evil. In this the person enduring the pain is gloried as being oh-so faithful and religious, while God is portrayed an evil monster. What would we think of an earthly parent that did that? What if a father took his kids out in the yard and beat them with a stick, expecting his children to thank him for it and thereby derive glory in their suffering and their willingness to suffer for him. Would we praise such a father for his actions? I think not.
Jesus came to show us the exact image of the Father. Never did Jesus show us anything approaching that sort of evil.
Calvin sees a self-seeking God giving glory to Himself by predisposing some to eternal Hell before they are born (see his quote below) - its oh well, sucks to be you. This blames God for putting some people being in hell in order to give glory to himself. Fortunately it is not scripture - it is Calvin's doctrine. The word of God says that God is love (1 John 8:16) and describes love (1 Corinthians 13) as being kind and not self-seeking. And yet Calvin put others to death that disagreed with him thinking he was doing God a favor (John 16:1-4).
“…individuals are born, who are doomed from the womb to certain death, and are to glorify him by their destruction.” (John Calvin, Institutes of Christian Religion, Book 3, Chapter 23, Paragraph 6)
The second half of
Romans 5:18 says that the "free gift of God came upon
all men unto justification of life".
All men here includes everyone, not just "the elect".
1 Timothy 4:10 agrees in that Paul says that God is the Savior of
all men. How can it be that many people are not saved? Other scripture, like
John 3:14-15, answers this question as it indicates that salvation is received through faith. The fact that some are not saved is not with the gift giver (God), it is with people who do not qualify to receive God's gift through faith.
Since Jesus took upon Himself the “sin of the world,” (
John 1:29), His atonement is therefore available to all, though is only applied whenever people place their faith in Him, just like His illustration at
John 3:14-15 of
Numbers 21:6-9 shows. Before a person looked upon the serpent on a standard, was anyone healed? Before a person believes in Jesus, is anyone saved?
God Himself established the condition, but Calvinists seek to revise God’s condition to imply that the atonement itself completes a transaction, in which the atonement itself does something to the individual which produces faith.
John 3:14 Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15
that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him.”
Number 21:6 Then the Lord sent venomous snakes among them; they bit the people and many Israelites died. 7 The people came to Moses and said, “We sinned when we spoke against the Lord and against you. Pray that the Lord will take the snakes away from us.” So Moses prayed for the people. 8 The Lord said to Moses, “Make a snake and put it up on a pole; anyone who is bitten can look at it and live.” 9 So Moses made a bronze snake and put it up on a pole. Then when anyone was bitten by a snake and looked at the bronze snake, they lived.