The elephant in the room is that the word for "tongues" could also refer to normal languages and not the gift of tongues. Also, the word "prophecy" means to "speak forth", which could also apply equally to preaching and may not refer to the gift of prophecy as outlined in 1 Corinthians 12. Therefore an applicable reading of the verse could quite accurately say that when perfection (the glorification of the bride of Christ) comes where there is direct fellowship with Christ, the need for world languages and preaching would no longer be needed and would cease. This is because every resurrected and glorified believer in heaven will have one language, and everything we need to know will come directly from the Lord Jesus Christ.
When Paul says, "Now remains faith, hope, and love" he is talking about the present state of believers in the Church Age, and not at some time in the future after Jesus comes again. After all the saints are resurrected to glory and are having direct fellowship with the Lord, faith and hope will no longer be needed and will not exist in heaven, but love will, because God is love and we will continue to walk in love to the Father and the Son.
To say that perfection equates to Christian maturity is total nonsense. Our present church is nowhere near any form of maturity. In fact it has so regressed over the centuries, that it is nowhere near what the early church was, and at that time, Paul said that it still needed to come to maturity. So it is quite right to say that true maturity will come when the saints are resurrected to glory when we will be changed in the twinkling of an eye, where our mortality will be transformed to immortality.
I read your paper on the gifts of the Spirit and I am not convinced. It seems that you have cobbled a few OT Scriptures together to fit your predetermined premise, but I am confused about what that actually is, because you have not made that clear.
What you've presented above doesn't fit with what Paul said.
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In the law it is written, With men of other tongues and other lips will I speak unto this people; and yet for all that will they not hear me, saith the Lord. 22 Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not:
The Holy Bible: King James Version, Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version. (Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc., 2009), 1 Co 14:20–22.
Paul says, "in the law it is written". He's alluding back to Isaiah 28.
For with stammering lips and another tongue
Will he speak to this people.
12 To whom he said,
This is the rest wherewith ye may cause the weary to rest;
And this is the refreshing: yet they would not hear.
13 But the word of the LORD was unto them
Precept upon precept, precept upon precept;
Line upon line, line upon line;
Here a little, and there a little;
That they might go, and fall backward, and be broken,
And snared, and taken.
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Wherefore hear the word of the LORD, ye scornful men,
That rule this people which is in Jerusalem.
15 Because ye have said, We have made a covenant with death,
And with hell are we at agreement;
The Holy Bible: King James Version, Electronic Edition of the 1900 Authorized Version. (Bellingham, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc., 2009), Is 28:11–15.
Isaiah makes it clear that God is addressing the leadership of the Jews in Jerusalem. When Paul says tongues are for a sign to the unbelievers, he means the unbelieving Jews. We saw the tongues he spoke of established on Pentecost. The disciples spoke in foreign languages they did not know. I think it's pretty clear that this is the gift of tongues.
How do you tell what is a gift and what is just God doing His thing in response to prayer???
I believe it's all God's doing. I don't believe the gifts of the first century are active today.