the common idea that the Mind Independent Reality (MIR) belief is part of science, a requirement of science,
There may be semantics involved here -- what you mean by the words you use, and what I mean when I use the exact same words, like "independent", being 2 unalike meanings -- that's why I wrote a post to you where you could respond about what you do agree with, to help clear up semantics problems. (Otherwise you'd end up tilting at windmills at times, simply because of semantic differences.)
I know this discussion with someone with a physics background must try your patience.
@partinobodycular you should find this interesting.
When humanity doesn't yet know something new-to-us part of Nature exists, it nevertheless does exist, we often discover later in time.
There are endless examples of things existing before we have any idea of them existing.
They are 'independent' of our thinking/understanding/knowledge, we see later on, once we find them for the first time. ('independent' -- they existed before we had even any idea at all, even an hypothesis, that some such thing could exist...)
Black holes are a good example, because they are so unlike other things. They are not merely part of a broad class with many other items.
They were a radically strange new thing, and nothing else seems like them, so the first prediction of them was exotic.
We now know they existed before we even had the slightest idea anything like such could exist.
When did we first get an inkling such a thing could exist?
While Einstein's General Relativity implied that black holes would exist in a much more precise and causally convincing way than before, but even after GR arrived, it was still very many decades before evidence of one was found.
We now have even direct observations, and understand they are a confirmed part of Nature, as we were taught before ever finding one.
We were instructed they would exist before we found one, instructed by physics.
It seems the first person to use the physics ideas of the day, in 1783, to think of them was a country parson/scientist.
John Michell: Country Parson Described Black Holes in 1783 | AMNH
When physics developed theories that implied objects like black holes would exist, that was an interesting moment.
Because none had been found nor imagined before.
We found part of Nature by discovering part of how Nature works.