- Apr 19, 2021
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Hi, I am new here. I was wondering if any of you would have something to say about having compassion towards those who are suffering? My husband believes that tough love is what people need when they are going through pain or depression, but this seems to be driving a wedge between us. My pastor is not big on compassion and love, because he believes it's misused to accept people's sins and do nothing about it. I just don't think we should throw the baby out with the bathwater. I told a story to my husband that when someone has heartburn they take tums to help alkaline their stomach but that it is actually making it worse. Acid reflux is there because there is actually not enough acid. The same with people who crave compassion is because they actually are not getting enough compassion in their lives. But instead those that are in their life withhold compassion to try to make that person "less emotional".
Ephesians 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Proverbs 11:17
The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
Colossians 3:12
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
1 John 3:18
My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
Philippians 2:1-3
If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
2 Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
Ephesians 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Proverbs 11:17
The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
Colossians 3:12
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
1 John 3:18
My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
Philippians 2:1-3
If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
2 Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.