Sounds like you are contradicting yourself. "impossible to make the exact equality", to me, means "not the same".
I agree -- the sentence was a little long.
"It's impossible to make the exact-equality, inexact" -- more to the point, it is yet another verse whose Calvinistic consideration is equivalent to stamping it, "NOT REALLY".
SO THEN condemnation came to
all men, EVEN SO justification came to
all men.
In no way can we perceive, "Condemnation came to all, but justification came to few".
Justification came to the
same "all men", as to whom came condemnation. Now, condemnation came conditionally; to be condemned, men must sin -- and verse 12 states every man meets the condition, "all are condemned (death spread to all men) because all sinned". Justification also came conditionally; and verse 17 expresses the condition --- "those
who receive the abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness shall reign with Christ" (shall be justified).
Yet another "THOSE-WHO" salvation verse...
Anyhow, this is semantics. I'm not saying that God doesn't present the same thing for our consideration to both the Elect and the rest of us --for eg, the Gospel is presented and available to all-- but that his enabling (i.e. regeneration) of them is not done to all, so not all are saved. Not all are made alive.
And that is the difference between your understanding, and mine. Calvinism/Sovereign-Predestined-Salvation/Reformed-Theology thinks regeneration PRECEDES belief and salvation. It's just the opposite, brother Mark. Verses thought to put "regeneration" before "belief", do not --- 1Cor2:14 must fit verse 12, we believe in Jesus and are saved and
receive the Spirit and ONLY THEN we are (v13) taught the deeper spiritual things (one subject in verses 9-15, things, them, thoughts-of-God, things, things, things, things).
2Cor4:3-4 must fit verse 2:3:16, men turn to God and THEN the veil blinding their eyes is removed.
Ezk36:26-27 must fit 11:18-19, they turn to God and remove abominations BEFORE He gives them new hearts. And voluntary participation in getting new hearts is undeniable in Ezk18:30-31, "Make for YOURSELVES a new heart and new spirit"!
Jeremiah 17:9 is followed by verse 10, in
spite of men's hearts being deceitful and desperately wicked, God
responds TO men's hearts and minds and
gives to each according to his ways! You see, we pursue either God and His righteousness (and receive salvation), or we pursue sin. Rom2:6-8 is clear (and 11 says "God is not partial"!); so is Jn3:18-21.
Calvinism usually embraces "TULIP" -- an acronym which starts with "total depravity" -- but it's not "total depravity", it actually is "total inability". That total-inability forces us to mark out passages like Acts17:26-31, which states God puts every man when and where each CAN seek Him and CAN FIND Him, God is not far from anyone! He commands all men everywhere to repent, He furnished proof to ALL MEN by raising Jesus from the dead. Think about that, Mark -- Jesus' resurrection is
proof enough for salvation, to every man! That means every man is "able", we have to discard "total inability". Jesus helkuo-forcibly-draws ALL MEN to Himself, Jn12:32.
And it's not ability-from-our-innate-goodness" (Pelagianism), Deut30:11-20 with Rom10:6-10 teaches
God PUTS the word-of-faith in EVERY heart and mouth! It's each person's choice to confess believe and be saved, or to prefer sin and perish. It's a choice, "from BEGINNING faith to ENDING faith" --- the righteous are to live BY faith! (Rom1:17!) How we begin is our choice, how we end is the same choice!
That's John 3:18-21 (see all the "HE WHO" clauses, and nothing of "God decides"?).
That's in Rom2, God's patience and kindness and forbearance LEADS to repentance (by Calvinism God GRANTS repentance TO those He leads, so they cannot resist!) --- but stubborn unrepentance stores up wrath for
themselves (by Calvinism their unrepentance proves God did NOT REALLY lead them to repentance!). Romans 2:4-11 must be marked out or at least pretended it's not there!
Do you begin to see how many verses must get stamped "NOT REALLY" or just marked out to keep "Sovereign Predestined Salvation"? It's not worth the effort, is it?