The temptation is from extremely attractive women in my life and work (all married or in a relationship btw) and they all wear form fitting clothes all the time. Its pretty rough.
Regardless when I go home, I am constantly being given sexual thoughts... no matter how many times I ask Jesus to take them away.
The thing about women is that they
love attention, absolutely love it. Wearing revealing clothes is part of that attention grab culture, but there’s something you ought to know as a young man, not only are these women not
worthwhile romantic prospects for you, but they’re also a net loss in your life, since they’re attention sinks, fantasy fuel and life traps to the men who take on such trashy dressing women.
They get your attention and you receive a head full of fear and lust and disappointment.
They (either intentionally or by accident) are making you into a beta orbiter, a satellite who orbits these women giving them an ego boost. This happens either in person or in the confines of your thought life, either way you can fill that time up with healthy things that grow you as a man.
They give you nothing though, no future prospects, no happiness, actually frustration is all they offer.
It is poor advice to get married to cure sexual desire, statistics say after the first 5 years of a relationship most men are involuntary celibates
It’s good to know beforehand that much of a relationship isn’t sex, it’s companionship.
And you’d be a lot less likely to have these women filling up your head space if you found some good quality companionship.
You’re in your 30s so don’t feel ashamed of looking, it’s fine and would probably help you see that these other women ain’t no big thing.