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Androgynous behavior draws undue attention to gender means that in having a distorted feminine or masculine face it draws undue attention to whats off limits.

I am not sure what you mean by "undue attention". Plenty of things in life are not gendered. When I see a woman or a man being called Sam I don't think twice about it.
 
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Its talking about ability to change romantic attraction (not as in being attracted to both genders at the same time, but over the course of ones life being attracted to both genders).

What does this have to do with eggs?

Although I think this conversation ran it's course (a while ago). Sadly I do not have much better things to do right now. So.. go on..
 
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I am not sure what you mean by "undue attention". Plenty of things in life are not gendered. When I see a woman or a man being called Sam I don't think twice about it.

Do you think drawing undue attention to gender refers to anything that shouldnt be discussed here in too much detail? Im not trying to be crass-this is because its hard to explain what the gotquestions.org vagueness means.
 
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What does this have to do with eggs?

Although I think this conversation ran it's course (a while ago). Sadly I do not have much better things to do right now. So.. go on..

Because sperm makes a male and eggs make a female.

If you dont totally agree with what I just said it supports what I said about distinct male and female/masculine and feminine faces.

Pretty boys and handsome women are language that agree with what Im saying.
 
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I am not sure what you mean by "undue attention". Plenty of things in life are not gendered. When I see a woman or a man being called Sam I don't think twice about it.

Do you think that has something to do with like gossip draws undue attention to personal things about people (and vanity too).

Do you think the female sam joke was a little stupid?
 
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Do you think drawing undue attention to gender refers to anything that shouldnt be discussed here in too much detail? Im not trying to be crass-this is because its hard to explain what the gotquestions.org vagueness means.

You do not have to worry about being crass around me. Just don't say anything to get this thread shut down.
 
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You do not have to worry about being crass around me. Just don't say anything to get this thread shut down.

Do you think that they mean androgynous behavior draws undue attention to anatomy or that it draws undue attention to who one is as a person and identity and perception and their soul, similar to what Bruce Jenner said, or the doctor said?

Some people speculate that there are male and female souls.
 
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Do you think that has something to do with like gossip draws undue attention to personal things about people (and vanity too).

Do you think the female sam joke was a little stupid?

What female Sam joke? I think it's kind hurtful that the woman gets called female Sam. Presuming there was a male Sam sitting at the lunch table that there need to be some distinction made. Now you're saying it's a joke so you made the story up?
 
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Do you think that they mean androgynous behavior draws undue attention to anatomy or that it draws undue attention to who one is as a person and identity and perception and their soul, similar to what Bruce Jenner said, or the doctor said?

Some people speculate that there are male and female souls.

I'll be honest I didn't really pay attention to this Dr. or Caitlyn Jenner.

Being androgynous can bring attention. I imagine women who wore jeans brought that, but overtime the image of women in jeans was natural and no longer brings attention. Something bringing attention doesn't make it bad either.
 
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I'll be honest I didn't really pay attention to this Dr. or Bruce Jenner.

Being androgynous can bring attention. I imagine women who wore jeans brought that, but overtime the image of women in jeans was natural and no longer brings attention. Something bringing attention doesn't make it bad either.

Do you think people think that thats wrong in terms of things similar to why gossip and vanity are wrong? They draw undue attention to people as people. Why do you think being androgynous bringing attention can be wierd?
 
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I'll be honest I didn't really pay attention to this Dr. or Caitlyn Jenner.

Being androgynous can bring attention. I imagine women who wore jeans brought that, but overtime the image of women in jeans was natural and no longer brings attention. Something bringing attention doesn't make it bad either.

I posted a video about a doctor talking about gender dysphoria.
 
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Do you think people think that thats wrong in terms of things similar to why gossip and vanity are wrong? They draw undue attention to people as people. Why do you think being androgynous bringing attention can be wierd?

Why do you think? If you see something culturally that hasn't been broken it cannot help but be attention grabbing at first. If I wore high heels and went out side I'd get a lot of looks.. if I managed to persuade millions of men to do the same thing and give some time to adjust I would no longer receive looks.
 
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Why do you think? If you see something culturally that hasn't been broken it cannot help but be attention grabbing at first. If I wore high heels and went out side I'd get a lot of looks.. if I managed to persuade millions of men to do the same thing and give some time to adjust I would no longer receive looks.

Meaning it draws undue attention to someone as a rebel or it just has a wierdness that leaves an impression?
 
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Meaning it draws undue attention to someone as a rebel or it just has a wierdness that leaves an impression?

I think it'd mainly be me wearing something traditionally worn by women. There might be some rebellious streak too it. Some rockers used to wear makeup and women's clothes for that reason. Or a Marylin Manson video that wants to look more unsettling and creepy, lol.
 
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