Not to mention that leading a nation and military leadership are very different to having oversight of a congregation.
My male Minister does not tell me what to do, what job to get, how to spend my money etc etc. I am not forced to attend the church he leads; I can go to another. I could move house, or abroad, without his permission. In tat sense, he does not lead me at all. He leads worship sometimes; he leads church meetings, teaches us church doctrine and proclaims and teaches the faith - he doesn't force people to believe and accept it
Except that we're talking about the church, not other countries.
It is God's church, God's kingdom, God's work, God's will and God is the One who saves, calls and gives us gifts. Are you saying that he can't call women to do certain things, serve him in a certain way or will never give us certain gifts?