Ana the Ist
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Legality and morality are different concepts entirely.
Just because slavery was at one point legal does not mean it was ever moral. Even most societies that did not view it as controversial recommended treating slaves kindly, so there are certainly moral dimensions to the question of slavery that have not changed at all.
No, morality and legality are not the same...but when we're talking about history, laws are useful for getting an idea of what people felt was moral. I could show that the prevailing attitude towards slavery for many years was just that...morally acceptable, if not good.
Likewise, the legality and morality of gay marriage do not necessarily match up. There are people who would hold that marriage has always been a political tool of control and therefore that no form of marriage has ever been moral.
You can certainly hold that opinion if you like...I see nothing immoral about it.
This argument is not going to work against anyone who believes in moral progress and rejects the notion of a morally perfect society.
I don't see what a "morally perfect society " has to do with it at all.
Only in that nihilism is honest, whereas you guys are trying to have your cake and eat it too.
I'm not trying to do anything other than describe morality as it is.
I'm a bit of a student of comparative mysticism, so I'm thinking more along the lines of how the relationship is described by the various saints of different traditions. I would not expect it to be like human relationships--what I am interested in is the transformative nature of what they seem to experience.
Granted, I suspect that there is a lot of craziness and self-hypnotism going on in Born Again circles, but this is not all you see if you actually look.
I've looked...and I'm guessing that this "transformation" you're speaking of isn't a physical one...so we're back to where we started. It's a one-sided relationship that's mainly about feelings. I'm not saying that's a bad thing...I'm sure it's very helpful for a lot of people. Some people don't need it though...and they aren't lacking anything by not having it.
You can say it, but that certainly doesn't make it true. Your stance on morality would be considerably different if you were Christian, so if Christianity is an accurate description of reality, there is at least one pretty significant hole in your life.
Which is what? An emotionally transformative relationship?
To prove such a thing, you'd have to show that one cannot experience an emotional transformation without the "relationship "....and I'm sure we both know you can't show that.
You're about 1 step away from the old esoteric knowledge gambit. All you need to do now is claim you have some knowledge which cannot be explained...that one has to have the relationship with god to have it.
Really, really important? Good luck finding a social reformer who didn't believe that their moral principles were in some sense objectively true--you can't get that sort of depth of conviction if you think that morality is ultimately just a free-for-all.
Why would I need to find a social reformer? Why does the depth of someone's convictions matter?
I certainly like having civil rights, and if they ever get stripped away, you guys will be the ones saying, "Oh well, that's just how societies change."
Lol they do get stripped away....and added to and changed....all the time. There's lots of people right now who want to severely restrict freedom of speech. We recently extended the right to marry to homosexuals. Once upon a time, women weren't allowed to vote.
Why do you think I'd just sit back and accept it if, for example, my right to a trial was taken away? Why do you think I wouldn't fight for that right? It's as important to me as it is to anyone else...arguably. Just as you pointed out that there's a difference between laws and morality...there's also a difference between civil rights and morality.
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