You're applying formal language to an
informal statement - turning a conversation into a debate. It's like someone making a statement that a car is going fast, and you walk up and insist they show you the reading off a radar gun to prove it.
I already told you I didn't keep a record of the exchange. So you either believe me or you don't. It's as simple as that. I was relating my experience, not presenting evidence of the state of modern academia.
It saddens me that you've managed to derail a thread that asked an interesting question, so I'm going to make a suggestion to you. For the fast car example, rather than asking for a radar gun, most reasonable people would just make a comment commensurate with the importance:
Me: That Mustang is fast.
You: It doesn't look that fast to me.
Me: Oh, what do you consider to be a fast car?
You: A Bugatti.
Me: Yeah, Bugatti's are cool.
Short & sweet. Subject over. Move on.
So, for this conversation (which I consider to be on the same level as people casually discussing fast cars):
Me: In my experience, R1/R2 universities are not receptive to studying alternatives to evolution.
You: I can think of people who challenged it in the past. I think universities are open to the possibility.
Me: Oh, like which one? If you've successfully made some proposals in the past, I'd appreciate the help.
You: Sure. You could submit to State U.
Me: Yeah, State U is cool. Thanks.