When I tell them what to do and they don't do it, they are sinning against me.
I disagree. I know of no Scripture saying to BELIEVE in mankind.
Men who do not BELIEVE in God, are sinning against God.
And it is their disbelief, and what they do while in disbelief is what is sin against God.
THAT is against God, and only forgiven By God, when a man becomes in belief and receives Gods forgiveness.
But it does bring up the concept of forgiveness. We are told to forgive them that sin against us without their asking for forgiveness, yet we seem to be taught by our leaders that to receive forgiveness from God we must ask for it.
Sin was first understood as a transgress against the law.
The Law, 10 Commandments + 600+ of Moses' law had much to do Between men.
So, yes, everything against the Law, pertaining to God or between men was called sin.
Yet we further know, knowledge, wisdom and understanding increases as one becomes steeped in Gods Word.
What I understand, I Trust the Lord has given me; which is as I have already in brief relayed.
To your point of what "your leaders" teach.
Asking God for His forgiveness, yes I would agree.
Repeatedly asking, I would not agree.
It brings to mind the challenges to most people's beliefs that raise up from Romans 9:
14 Was God being unfair? Of course not. 15 For God had said to Moses, “If I want to be kind to someone, I will. And I will take pity on anyone I want to.” 16 And so God’s blessings are not given just because someone decides to have them or works hard to get them. They are given because God takes pity on those he wants to.
17 Pharaoh, king of Egypt, was an example of this fact. For God told him he had given him the kingdom of Egypt for the very purpose of displaying the awesome power of God against him, so that all the world would hear about God’s glorious name. 18 So you see, God is kind to some just because he wants to be, and he makes some refuse to listen.
I have no issue with Gods behavior. He is perfect in all His ways, whether or not we understand it.
19 Well then, why does God blame them for not listening? Haven’t they done what he made them do?
20 No, don’t say that. Who are you to criticize God? Should the thing made say to the one who made it, “Why have you made me like this?” 21 When a man makes a jar out of clay, doesn’t he have a right to use the same lump of clay to make one jar beautiful, to be used for holding flowers, and another to throw garbage into? 22 Does not God have a perfect right to show his fury and power against those who are fit only for destruction, those he has been patient with for all this time? 23-24 And he has a right to take others such as ourselves, who have been made for pouring the riches of his glory into, whether we are Jews or Gentiles, and to be kind to us so that everyone can see how very great his glory is.
I agree. God is not the object of blame.
God Bless,
SBC