Wives vs submission to husbands vs submission to Jesus

[Victory-N-Christ]

Why is it so hard for people to submit to their "heads"?
Ephesians 5:22-33. Lays it out plainly.Wives submit to their husbands just as the Church must submit to Jesus. Scripture says that when a man finds a wife he has found something good.Ephesians 5: 25 tells husbands to love their wives as their own bodies. These are scriptures to give serious consideration of before and after marriage.Jesus is head of man.So why is it so hard for a man to submit to his head? What's the problem?

 

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Why is it so hard for people to submit to their "heads"?
Ephesians 5:22-33. Lays it out plainly.Wives submit to their husbands just as the Church must submit to Jesus. Scripture says that when a man finds a wife he has found something good.Ephesians 25 tells husbands to love their wives as their own bodies. These are scriptures to give serious consideration of before and after marriage.Jesus is head of man.So why is it so hard for a man to submit to his head? What's the problem?

Were still sinners.

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

I can understand that women don't want to be some guy's doormat or sex box but the truth is that sex is a part of marriage .Scripture speaks highly of spouses not holding out on each other in this area.Another question: What woman in her right mind could find joy in submitting to an abusive tyrant?
Here's another one:What man in his right mind could love and respect a woman who disrespects him,nags him,tries to defy him in every way?

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

Were still sinners.

Of course we're still sinners but at some point in our Christian walk we must submit and repent.

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

The God we serve is a God of order.He created order from chaos.So when anything in our lives is out of order that's definitely not His plan for us.

 

[PrettyboyAndy]

Why is it so hard for people to submit to their "heads"?
Ephesians 5:22-33. Lays it out plainly.Wives submit to their husbands just as the Church must submit to Jesus. Scripture says that when a man finds a wife he has found something good.Ephesians 5: 25 tells husbands to love their wives as their own bodies. These are scriptures to give serious consideration of before and after marriage.Jesus is head of man.So why is it so hard for a man to submit to his head? What's the problem?

Are you male or female? Just wondering

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

Are you male or female? Just wondering

My spouse thought this was a good question.I'm male.

 

[Solomons Porch]

I can understand that women don't want to be some guy's doormat or sex box but the truth is that sex is a part of marriage .Scripture speaks highly of spouses not holding out on each other in this area.Another question: What woman in her right mind could find joy in submitting to an abusive tyrant?
Here's another one:What man in his right mind could love and respect a woman who disrespects him,nags him,tries to defy him in every way?

I dont know if this is gonna help u or not, but here it is.
A woman (that loves and TRULY lives for Christ) will not submit to her husband, if her husband does not take on the roll of leading her and loving her, just as Christ loved the church. A woman needs to feel secure and protected, at all times. When she has sex (makes love) she needs to have her emotions met, or else she cannot bring herself to have sex with her spouse. Because she feels empty. Her love is on the inside, a mans love is on the outside. If she feels like a treasured jewel to you and you listen to her and care for her emotions as well as her physical being, you got it made with her. She will b ready at all times. Men are visual and dont communicate as often as women need. Talking and emotions being met, is foreplay to a woman. Not like the man of course, you are visual, she is not. Her visual does not come into effect until the emotional part is satisfied. She has to feel trust, security and emotional comfort from the spouse.

 

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I can understand that women don't want to be some guy's doormat or sex box but the truth is that sex is a part of marriage .Scripture speaks highly of spouses not holding out on each other in this area.Another question: What woman in her right mind could find joy in submitting to an abusive tyrant?
Here's another one:What man in his right mind could love and respect a woman who disrespects him,nags him,tries to defy him in every way?

If a man is treating a woman as a doormat or sex box....then that man is not treating his wife the way Christ would treat the church.
As to the christian man who has a woman who disrespects him, nags him, tries to defy him in every way....as I said above, were sinners and often retaliate back for being treated in such a fashion.....which starts the cycle going.

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

I dont know if this is gonna help u or not, but here it is.
A woman (that loves and TRULY lives for Christ) will not submit to her husband, if her husband does not take on the roll of leading her and loving her, just as Christ loved the church. A woman needs to feel secure and protected, at all times. When she has sex (makes love) she needs to have her emotions met, or else she cannot bring herself to have sex with her spouse. Because she feels empty. Her love is on the inside, a mans love is on the outside. If she feels like a treasured jewel to you and you listen to her and care for her emotions as well as her physical being, you got it made with her. She will b ready at all times. Men are visual and dont communicate as often as women need. Talking and emotions being met, is foreplay to a woman. Not like the man of course, you are visual, she is not. Her visual does not come into effect until the emotional part is satisfied. She has to feel trust, security and emotional comfort from the spouse.

Oh she really loves your reply. Thanks.

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

If a man is treating a woman as a doormat or sex box....then that man is not treating his wife the way Christ would treat the church.
As to the christian man who has a woman who disrespects him, nags him, tries to defy him in every way....as I said above, were sinners and often retaliate back for being treated in such a fashion.....which starts the cycle going.

Thanks.I heartily agree.

 

[Solomons Porch]

Oh she really loves your reply. Thanks.

lol
What?? It's the truth
Now u give me just a second and I will reply about the other side of the coin.
Yes or no?

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

Hey wait a minute.Women do sneaky things to set their man off.They have their own way of getting even.Oh they can be sneaky...

 

[Victory-N-Christ]

lol
What?? It's the truth
Now u give me just a second and I will reply about the other side of the coin.
Yes or no?

Alright.

 

[PrettyboyAndy]

I dont know if this is gonna help u or not, but here it is.
A woman (that loves and TRULY lives for Christ) will not submit to her husband, if her husband does not take on the roll of leading her and loving her, just as Christ loved the church. A woman needs to feel secure and protected, at all times. When she has sex (makes love) she needs to have her emotions met, or else she cannot bring herself to have sex with her spouse. Because she feels empty. Her love is on the inside, a mans love is on the outside. If she feels like a treasured jewel to you and you listen to her and care for her emotions as well as her physical being, you got it made with her. She will b ready at all times. Men are visual and dont communicate as often as women need. Talking and emotions being met, is foreplay to a woman. Not like the man of course, you are visual, she is not. Her visual does not come into effect until the emotional part is satisfied. She has to feel trust, security and emotional comfort from the spouse.

Nice post

 

[Solomons Porch]

Yes woman can be sneaky. Yes men can be sneaky.
Now Im just gonna go ahead and say, Im fixing to be really blunt. If ya dont agree with me, no problemo, im good with it. Years have taught me what I know and plenty of heartache. So u can pick up the shovel and get to digging or just walk away and say, Oh well......
Men need-----
To feel respect, honor, king of the hill and superman on steroids. Like they aint nothing in this world better than him, He is provider and leader, like a great king, chest out muscles bouncing, He is the "IT" man.
He mostly wants to know, that he sexually pleases the wife. That all of his "tactics" and "instruments" are playing the highest note played. That she dont ever want nobody but "his stuff" and he wants to walk around day to day, thinking he's got a hot chick at home, waiting for him with baited breath. He really does, honestly.
Whatever he puts his hands to is the most awesomest bestest thing in the world. His emotions are not connected like the wifes (thats the part of the rib God took out and made the woman with, cause the man couldnt handle all that stuff inside of him at once, so God knew he needed to divide it up, so that rib, now is the emotions and sexuality in human form, thus u have the woman) so the man takes the physical road and the woman takes the emotional road. More???

 

[PrettyboyAndy]

I dont know if this is gonna help u or not, but here it is.
A woman (that loves and TRULY lives for Christ) will not submit to her husband, if her husband does not take on the roll of leading her and loving her, just as Christ loved the church. A woman needs to feel secure and protected, at all times. When she has sex (makes love) she needs to have her emotions met, or else she cannot bring herself to have sex with her spouse. Because she feels empty. Her love is on the inside, a mans love is on the outside. If she feels like a treasured jewel to you and you listen to her and care for her emotions as well as her physical being, you got it made with her. She will b ready at all times. Men are visual and dont communicate as often as women need. Talking and emotions being met, is foreplay to a woman. Not like the man of course, you are visual, she is not. Her visual does not come into effect until the emotional part is satisfied. She has to feel trust, security and emotional comfort from the spouse.

This is important, I for one am not nearly as attentive to the wifes emotions as I should be

 

[PrettyboyAndy]

Yes woman can be sneaky. Yes men can be sneaky.
Now Im just gonna go ahead and say, Im fixing to be really blunt. If ya dont agree with me, no problemo, im good with it. Years have taught me what I know and plenty of heartache. So u can pick up the shovel and get to digging or just walk away and say, Oh well......
Men need-----
To feel respect, honor, king of the hill and superman on steroids. Like they aint nothing in this world better than him, He is provider and leader, like a great king, chest out muscles bouncing, He is the "IT" man.
He mostly wants to know, that he sexually pleases the wife. That all of his "tactics" and "instruments" are playing the highest note played. That she dont ever want nobody but "his stuff" and he wants to walk around day to day, thinking he's got a hot chick at home, waiting for him with baited breath. He really does, honestly.
Whatever he puts his hands to is the most awesomest bestest thing in the world. His emotions are not connected like the wifes (thats the part of the rib God took out and made the woman with, cause the man couldnt handle all that stuff inside of him at once, so God knew he needed to divide it up, so that rib, now is the emotions and sexuality in human form, thus u have the woman) so the man takes the physical road and the woman takes the emotional road. More???

So how does one obtain this?

 

[Solomons Porch]

I can speak for both the men and women, and nope i am not tooting my own horn. But I gained this knowledge thru blood sweat n tears. If I was not on an open for the world to see spot, I could really break it down. But others would find what I say to be offensive. And my goodness lets not offend. But when 2 ppl agree to put down the weapons and try it Gods way, you will not believe the outcome. True story !!

 

[Solomons Porch]

So how does one obtain this?

You deny yourself
And live for her
And she lives for you
Just like Christ did for you
He gave and gave and gave and is still giving, denying himself
Thats what she does for the hubby
Thats what he does for the wifey
You forget what you need, and give what the other one needs
And they in turn would do the same for you